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Apology Letter To Boyfriend For Being Toxic
Apology Letter To Boyfriend For Being Toxic: We all get defensive, irritable and angry sometimes. Nobody is perfect, and nobody can go through life without messing up every once in a while, or every day for that matter. But there’s a big difference between making a mistake, and treating people poorly on a consistent basis. This letter is a way of apologizing to your boyfriend for being toxic towards him on a daily basis.
Apology Letter To Boyfriend For Being Toxic
Dear [boyfriend’s name],
I’m writing to you to apologize for being toxic. I know we’ve had a rocky relationship at times, but I want to make sure you know how sorry I am if I’ve ever made you feel like my toxic behavior was your fault. It never was.
I love you so much and want our relationship to be healthy and happy. Your happiness is the most important thing in the world to me, and it pains me when I realize that what I do or say can hurt or upset you.
I hope this letter will help us get back on track and start fresh.
Dear [boyfriend name],
I’m sorry for all the times that I’ve been toxic in our relationship.
I know it’s not your fault, and I know it wasn’t always your fault either. It’s just that sometimes when you’re in a relationship with someone and they’re not treating you well, it can be hard to tell the difference between “this is how they are” and “this is how they’re treating me”.
But I’m sure of one thing: I don’t want to be toxic anymore. So from now on, I promise not to do any of these things:
-Picking fights with you when we disagree about anything (even if it seems like we don’t agree)
-Making snide comments about your friends or family members (even if they seem like jerks)
-Throwing blame back at you when we argue (even if it seems like you’re wrong)
-Calling you names or making fun of your appearance (even if you look really dumb).
Dear [Boyfriend],
I’m sorry for being toxic to you. I know we’ve had a lot of problems in our relationship, and some of them have been my fault. I’m sorry for making you feel like you couldn’t trust me or that you were going to get hurt if you stayed with me. I know those things made it hard for you to be yourself around me, and that’s not okay.
I want us to have a healthy relationship, so I’m going to try really hard not to do these things anymore. If there’s anything else that makes you feel uncomfortable or anxious about being around me, please let me know so we can talk about it (and maybe even make some plans together!). And if something comes up again in the future, even if it was years ago, please don’t hesitate to tell me how it makes you feel. You deserve better than this!
Hey [name],
I’m so sorry for the way I have been acting lately. I know things have been difficult between us, and I want to make sure that you know how much I care about you and our relationship.
I know we’ve had some disagreements over the past few months, and I need to take responsibility for my part in those arguments. It’s not fair to blame all of them on you, because they are my fault as well. But what is also true is that sometimes when you argue with me, it can feel like an attack on who I am as a person. When that happens, it makes me feel unsafe in our relationship and causes me to become defensive or even hostile towards you.
I’m going to try harder to be more conscious of this problem and do my best to not let it happen again.
Dear [Boyfriend Name],
I’m sorry for being toxic. You are a good person, and I know that you were trying to help me. But sometimes I just get so frustrated, and it comes out in ways that hurt you. Sometimes I don’t even realize how much it hurts until after the fact.
I’m sorry for criticizing your choice of music, or spending too much time with your friends instead of with me. I’m sorry for making fun of your job, or being insensitive about your family. I know those things aren’t important to you, you’re just doing what makes you happy, and I shouldn’t judge you for that. And sometimes, if things aren’t going well with me and my life isn’t going the way I want it to go, it’s easier to blame other people than to look at myself honestly and see what’s wrong with the situation. But that doesn’t mean it’s okay to take that anger out on you; it was unfair and wrong of me to do so.
I know these things will probably never change, we’re both stubborn people who have different ideas about how life should be lived, but I hope we can start over fresh here today.
Dear [boyfriend’s name],
I’m sorry. I’ve been a little toxic lately and I know it’s been hard for you. I still love you, but sometimes I feel like you don’t understand me. I don’t know how to explain it to you, but I just want you to know that I’m trying my best to be less toxic. Please know that while my behavior has been hurtful and toxic, my intentions are always good.
Thanks for being there for me when I need someone to talk to or vent my frustrations at. Thanks for listening and being patient with me. You’re an amazing boyfriend and person in general! Please forgive me if I’ve hurt you in any way or have made your life difficult in any way over the past few weeks because of my toxic behavior (or even months). And please know that this is not who I am, it’s just what’s been happening lately because of stressors at work/school/home etc. But at the end of the day we should always remember why we love each other so much! So let’s work on making sure this doesn’t happen again by talking through any problems before they become too much of an issue between us! All together now.
Dear [boyfriend name],
I’m sorry for being toxic. I know you’ve had it hard, and I’ve been so focused on my own problems that I haven’t stopped to think about how you’re handling things.
I know things have been hard since [event that made us separate]. I wish there was something I could do to make it better for you, but there isn’t. It’s okay if you don’t want to talk about it, just know that if you ever want to talk to someone who understands, I’m here for you.
Dear [boyfriend],
I’m sorry. I know I can be toxic, and I’m sorry if you’ve had to deal with that. It’s not who I want to be, and it’s not who I am at my core. I think we deserve better than that.
I hope you’ll forgive me for being so toxic, and give me another chance.
Dear [boyfriend],
I’m sorry. I’ve been a toxic person, and I know it’s been hard for you to deal with. I want to change, and I hope you’ll help me do that.
I hear what you say about how I put down your friends, family, and hobbies. It hurts me when you tell me that because it makes me feel like my love for you is conditional on your behavior. That’s not fair, and it’s not the kind of relationship I want to have with you.
I want us to be able to disagree without making each other feel bad about who we are as people, and even more than that, without making each other feel bad about loving each other. Can we try?
Dear [boyfriend name],
I’m sorry for being toxic to you. I know that I have been a huge burden on you, and I can’t apologize enough for how much of your time I’ve taken up.
I hope you will accept my apology and let me make it up to you by spending time with you in the future.
Dear [boyfriend’s name],
I’m writing this letter to apologize for my toxic behavior. I’ve been acting out in ways that are hurtful and unkind, and I know it’s not fair to you or me. I want to make sure you know how sorry I am that things have gotten this bad.
I know we can get through this together, but the way we’ve been dealing with our issues lately isn’t helping anyone, it’s just making things worse. You’re a great person and deserve so much better than what I’ve been giving you.
Please accept my apologies, [boyfriend’s name].
Dear [name],
I’m sorry for being toxic. I know that you have to deal with a lot of toxicity in your life, and it’s not fair for me to add to it. You’re doing so much, and I just want you to know how much I appreciate that and how much more I want to help out around the house.
So from now on, I’m going to do my best to be less toxic. I’ll do the dishes every night and take out the trash when it gets full (or before). If we go somewhere, I’ll bring my own car so we don’t have to worry about parking or Ubering home. And if there’s anything else you need help with (like getting groceries), let me know!
I love you so much!
Hey, [Boyfriend Name].
I know I’ve been acting a little weird lately. I’m sorry. I don’t know why I’ve been so mean to you lately, but it’s not fair to you, and it’s not fair to me either.
I’m just not feeling like myself lately. It’s like my brain is telling me that everyone around me is out to get me or something, and then when someone does something nice for me, my brain tells me that they’re trying to trick me somehow.
Dear [boyfriend],
I’m sorry for the way I’ve been acting and treating you. I know that I’ve been a little toxic and at times, it’s been hard to be around me. Things have been so difficult lately, and I know that hasn’t helped matters either.
But I want you to know that everything will be okay. We’re going to get through this rough patch together, and come out stronger on the other side. You’re amazing and wonderful, and even if we don’t work out romantically, I want you to know that we’ll always be friends.
I love you!
Dear [boyfriend’s name],
I’m sorry for the way I’ve been acting lately. It’s not fair to you, and it’s not fair to me. I know that we’re supposed to be there for each other, but lately all I’ve been able to do is take from you without giving anything in return. You deserve better than that from me.
I wish I could say what exactly has caused my behavior, but I just don’t know. It feels like there are a million things going on at once and none of them are good enough reasons for how bad things have gotten between us. But whatever it is, whether it’s your fault or mine, I want to fix it now because I love you too much to let this go on any longer.
Please forgive me for being toxic and allow me back into your life so we can figure out what went wrong together and get back on track again.
Dear [boyfriend’s name],
I’m sorry for being toxic and making you feel bad. I should have known better than to treat you like that, especially when you’re just trying to help me. Please know that I love you and respect you for the wonderful person that you are.
Love,
[your name]
Dear [boyfriend],
I’m sorry for being toxic. I know that I have been acting in a way that has made you feel hurt and unloved, and it has been my fault. I want to change things so that we can be happy together again. I know that I have hurt you deeply, and I want to make amends for that.
I love you, [boyfriend], and I know that we can get through this together.
