Apology Letter To Boyfriend For Cheating And Lying

If you find yourself in a situation where you have to apologize to your boyfriend because you cheated and you have been lying to him. You can use these sample letters below to send to him to apologize for all your wrong doings

Apology Letter To Boyfriend For Cheating And Lying

Dear [boyfriend’s name],

I’m writing this letter to you because I want to apologize for cheating on you and lying. I know how much it hurts to be lied to and cheated on, and I want you to know that I understand.

I’ve been having a really hard time lately. I’ve been feeling so depressed and anxious that it felt like my life was spinning out of control. And then one day, when I was feeling especially desperate for someone to talk to about all the things going on in my head, it just happened, I met someone who seemed like they could help me out. They were very kind and understanding at first, but eventually we started talking more often than we should have. And after a while, it got harder for me not to talk with them than it did for me to let them go completely.

But now that we’re no longer together, all those feelings of depression and anxiety are back again and even worse than before! And every time I think about how much pain this person has caused me, all the lies they told me… well… It just makes me feel worse.

I know that what happened between us is my fault not yours and I am really sorry.

Dear [boyfriend’s name],

I’m writing this letter to apologize for my behavior. I cheated on you, and I lied about it. I feel terrible about what I did, and I want you to know that it will never happen again.

I realize that you’ve had a lot of trust issues in the past, and that’s my fault—but if there is any way possible to build back your trust, I would love to do so. We’ve been together for three years now, and I don’t want to lose that!

You’re an amazing person who deserves better than what I’ve done to you. If there’s anything at all that could help me earn back your trust, please let me know. My feelings are very strong for you, but I need to be able to prove them with actions instead of words alone.

Dear [boyfriend name],

I know I’ve been distant lately, and I’m sorry for that. You’ve been so patient and understanding, but it’s time for me to be honest with you. I’ve been cheating on you for some time now, and I’m so sorry for lying about it. I know you’re going to be hurt by this revelation, but please know that I am truly sorry for hurting you. I hope you can forgive me someday and if not, then at least understand why it happened.

Thank you for being so great.

Dear [boyfriend name],

I’m sorry I lied to you.

It was wrong and I know that now. I should have trusted you and been honest with you, but instead I chose to hide the truth from you, which only made things worse. The truth is that I cheated on you. It wasn’t just one time, it was several times and it happened with more than one person.

I don’t expect you to forgive me or take me back, but if there’s any chance of us working things out, then please know that what I did was a mistake and won’t happen again. If there’s anything at all that can be done to fix this mess we’ve made, then please let me know how I can help make it right again.

Dear [boyfriend name],

I’m sorry. I know that I’ve been a terrible girlfriend, and it’s all because of me. I know you’ve tried to be understanding and kind, but I can’t help but feel like we’re not on the same page.

I know you must still love me, there’s no way you could have put up with me for this long if you didn’t but maybe it would be best if we took a break from our relationship for a while. You deserve someone who will be honest and faithful to you, and that’s not something I can promise anymore.

Dear [boyfriend],

I’m writing this letter to you in order to apologize for my actions. I’ve been thinking a lot about our relationship lately, and I feel like I need to make things right.

First of all, I’m sorry that I cheated on you with [name] last week. It was wrong of me. You were right, I should have told you what happened right away instead of waiting until the next morning when we were at work together and then avoiding all contact with you until now. That was not OK at all, and it will never happen again.

I know that I’ve made some mistakes in the past, but this time felt different because it wasn’t just one mistake, it was two mistakes: cheating on you and lying about it afterward. And I’m sorry for both of them. I know that it’s hard for me to trust you now, and that makes sense because we haven’t had an open dialogue about our feelings yet (we should talk more). But if there’s anything else that happens like this again, if there are other lies or secrets between us there will be no second chances left.

Dear [boyfriend name],

I’m writing this note to you to apologize for my behavior. I’ve been unfaithful, and I know you deserve better than that. I also lied about some things that were important to us, and I’m sorry for making you feel like you weren’t being treated with the respect that you deserve.

It’s hard to say how long it will take me to earn back your trust, but I want to do whatever it takes to show you that I’m committed to making this relationship work. I know it’s not going to be easy, but if there’s anything at all that you need from me right now or in the future, please let me know, I’ll be here for you 100%.

Dear [boyfriend name],

I’m sorry. I know you’re probably not reading this right now, but I wanted to write it down anyway. I’ve been thinking about what happened and how I could have handled it better.

What happened was that I cheated on you with another girl, and then lied about it for a month. But even though I feel really bad about it now, it doesn’t change the fact that our relationship is over.

I know that you’re going through a hard time right now, and I know that when things are hard, people make mistakes, sometimes bad ones. But in this case, my mistake was so bad that we can’t just pretend like nothing happened or keep going as if nothing had changed between us. We need to move on from being together and start over as friends or even just acquaintances if that’s what works best for both of us right now (or maybe neither?).

I’m sorry again for everything and hope you have a good day today.

Dear [boyfriend’s name],

I’m sorry for cheating on you, lying to you and betraying your trust. I have no excuse for my actions other than that I was weak and made a mistake. I should have been honest with you and told you what I was doing but instead I lied and kept hiding it from you. That is not who I am and it will never happen again. You are an amazing person who deserves better than me.

I would love to talk to you about this more in person but if that doesn’t happen then please just know that I am truly sorry for hurting you and hope we can move forward in a good way.

Dear [boyfriend name],

I’m writing this letter to apologize for cheating on you and lying about it. I know that I’ve hurt you, and I can’t tell you how sorry I am for doing so. I never meant to hurt you, and I never thought my actions would lead to a breakup.

I think what happened was that my ego took over: I wanted to feel like a woman again, but it wasn’t worth losing everything else in my life. But now that we’ve broken up, all I want is to get back together with you and make things right between us.

Please forgive me for hurting you and please give me another chance.

Dear [boyfriend name],

I’m sorry for cheating on you, and for lying about it for so long. I know that I hurt you, and that was not my intention. I was scared of losing you, and so I lied to protect myself. But now that our relationship is over, it’s time for me to be honest with myself and with you.

I know that there are no excuses for what I did. It was wrong, and I am truly sorry. All I can do now is hope you will find it in your heart to forgive me one day.

Dear [boyfriend name],

I am writing to apologize for cheating on you and lying to you. I know how much you love me, so I am sure that this is a very difficult time for you.

I want to let you know that I am truly sorry for my actions and hope that we can move forward in our relationship with new trust and honesty.

I understand if you need some time away from me, but please know that I am doing everything in my power to ensure this does not happen again.

Hey, [boyfriend].

I’m writing this letter to apologize for cheating on you with my ex-boyfriend. I know that’s not what you deserve and that it was really wrong of me. I feel terrible about it and wish I could take it back.

I know this is going to be hard for you to forgive me, but I hope that someday we’ll be able to talk about what happened, and maybe even forgive each other—or at least move past it?

I miss you so much and love spending time with you. Please let me know when you’re ready to talk again.

Hey [boyfriend name],

I’m sorry for cheating on you. I know it was wrong, and I wish more than anything that I could take it back. As much as I’ve tried to convince myself that it wasn’t a big deal and that you would never find out, the fact is that I cheated on you, and when you find out about it, it will hurt you. That’s why I had to tell you myself, so that we can move on together.

I know we’ll have our ups and downs in the future, but I’m hoping that this will be a turning point for us. We have been through so much together: good times and bad times; love and heartbreak; joys and sorrows. Now all those things are behind us because of how strong we are together.

Dear [boyfriend],

I am writing to express my apologies for the way I have acted. The past few weeks have been difficult for me and I took out my frustrations in the wrong way.

I know you didn’t deserve to be lied to and cheated on, but I want you to know that those things will never happen again. You are a wonderful person and I’m lucky to have you in my life. I hope we can start over again, because I really do love you.

Hey, [boyfriend name],

I’m so sorry for everything I’ve put you through. It’s not right, and it’s not OK. I know that I need to be honest with you about everything, and I’m going to try. It’s not fair to you that I lied about where I was, or who I was with, or what happened between us.

I’m going to work hard to make sure this never happens again and if it does, it will be because of something really important that I need to do for myself. But I promise that if it does happen again, it will never be something like this again: cheating on my boyfriend without telling him about it?
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