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Forgiveness Letter To Cheating Boyfriend
Sometimes a person from us experiences something really bad in his life. This is also true for a relationship. The time, when you see that your boyfriend cheat on you can be a very painful moment. But it’s necessary for you to understand that there are mistakes made by everyone and we need to forgive each other. That’s the only way, which helps us to accomplish harmony in our relationships with people around us.
Forgiveness Letter To Cheating Boyfriend
Dear,
I am writing this letter to you, because I want to forgive you for what you have done.
I know that it is not easy for me to forgive you, but I want to do it.
I know that you are suffering from your mistakes and that you don’t want to repeat them again. I also know that you are ready for a new start with me and our relationship.
You have been my life partner for years and I love you very much. I want our marriage to be even more beautiful than before.
Dear boyfriend,
I want you to know that I forgive you. I know it’s been a while since we broke up and you’re living your life as if nothing happened. But I still keep thinking about you and how much I miss our moments together.
You were always there for me when times were rough and that’s why it hurts so much when all of a sudden, you stopped caring about me. Your actions are unforgivable but I can’t help but forgive you because deep down inside, I still love you.
I know that it’s hard for me to get over what happened but I am trying my best not to think about it anymore because thinking about it just makes me feel sad and angry at the same time. You hurt me badly but what hurts more is seeing how happy you are with her while knowing that she’s not worthy of having your heart.
We were so happy before all this happened, baby. We used to spend our days together laughing away like there was nothing else in this world that mattered except for us two being together forever. But now, everything has changed and nothing seems right anymore because everything feels so wrong between us.
Dear [name],
I’m not sure why you chose to have an affair with [rival], but I can’t keep letting that one decision destroy our marriage. We’ve been together for [number] years, and we’ve had our ups and downs, but we’ve always made it through. You’ve been there for me when my parents died, when my brother went to jail, when my sister left home because she couldn’t stand living under my rules anymore. You’ve always been there for me, and I’ll never forget that.
I know that this letter must seem like a betrayal of your trust, but I hope that you’ll know that I’m doing this out of love for us both. That’s why I’m giving you this letter: so you can see how much I still care about you and want us to be together again someday.
We may not be able to get back everything we had before [incident], but we can try again from scratch if you’re willing.
Dear cheating boyfriend,
I am writing this letter to you because I have been feeling very hurt and sad. You have been my best friend for a long time and I thought that we would always be together. But when you cheated on me, it was like a knife going through my heart. I felt like dying inside and I thought that I could never forgive you for what you did.
But then I realized that forgiveness is the only way to heal the pain and move on with our lives. Forgiveness does not mean that we are condoning the wrongdoings of another person or that we are forgetting about what happened in our past. It simply means letting go of all feelings of anger towards someone who has hurt us in some way so that we can move forward with our lives without carrying any grudges or baggage from the past.
Dear [insert cheating boyfriend’s name],
I am writing this letter to you as a last resort. I have tried talking to you, confronting you, and trying to understand what happened. The truth is that I don’t care why it happened or how it happened. But I do care about our future together.
Yes, you cheated on me and that hurt like hell. It made me feel like a fool for trusting you, for believing in our relationship, and for believing that we would be together forever. But I love you more than anything else in the world and I want us both to be happy again.
Dear [name],
I know that you are going through a tough time right now, and I want to let you know that I am here for you. I am willing to forgive you for what happened between us because I love you so much.
I understand how hard it must be for you to trust me again after what happened, but I promise that I will do whatever it takes to win your trust back.
I am sorry for all the pain that I have caused you, and I just want us both to move on with our lives as soon as possible. We have so many good memories together that we should not let anything get in the way of them.
You mean so much to me, and I hope that someday we can be together again without any issues whatsoever between us.
Dear XXX,
I know that you are feeling very guilty about your actions. However, I want you to know that I forgive you for what happened. You hurt me deeply when you cheated on me with that woman from work, but I realize it was a mistake that can happen to anyone. You were not thinking clearly at the time and you made a bad decision. It’s part of human nature to make mistakes, and we all do it at some point in our lives.
I know that this letter will come as a surprise to you because we have both been hurt by this situation and neither of us wants to go through it again. But there is something important that I need to tell you: I still love you very much and trust that we can rebuild our relationship together if we work hard enough at it.
Dear [Name],
I hope this letter finds you well. I’m sorry it has taken me so long to respond to your request for forgiveness, but as you know, it’s been a rough few weeks.
I can’t imagine what it must have been like for you to see me cry and break down in front of my friends, family and coworkers. I know that it must have been devastating for you to watch me go through such an emotional time.
Being cheated on is one of the most difficult things anyone can experience in their lifetime. I know this because I have experienced it myself, and even though I don’t think that was what we were talking about when we decided to get married, I still feel like this is part of our story.
Dear [name],
I am writing this letter to let you know that I forgive you. I’m writing this letter because I want you to know that I forgive you and I want to move on with my life.
I understand that sometimes we make mistakes, but they don’t define who we are. We have the power to overcome our mistakes, and become better people because of them.
I don’t care about what happened or why it happened or who was involved or how many times it happened. What matters most is that you were willing to come and talk to me about it, instead of hiding from me like many other men would have done in your position. You were willing to take responsibility for your actions and apologize for them, even if it was only after being found out by someone else! That takes guts and strength!
I hope that someday soon, perhaps when the dust has settled from this whole ordeal, we can find a way back into each other’s arms once again. But until then.
Dearest,
Although I did not want to admit it, there was something missing in our relationship. I had always suspected that something was wrong but since I loved you so much, I ignored my gut instinct. But when you cheated on me for the second time, I knew that we needed to end things.
I know that breaking up with you will be hard for both of us. However, if we stay together, we will only cause ourselves more pain and hurt.
I have forgiven you for what you have done to me and I hope that in time you will also be able to forgive yourself.
Dear [boyfriend],
I’m writing to you because I think it’s time for me to forgive you for cheating on me. I know that it’s been a long time since we broke up, but I still think about you every day and I want you to know that I’ve never stopped loving you.
I know that what you did was wrong, but what can I say? You’re human, just like me. You made a mistake, but we all make mistakes sometimes. You can’t expect yourself to be perfect all the time. And anyway, even if it was a mistake, it doesn’t change the fact that we were happy together at one point in our lives.
Even though I’m not with you anymore, I still care about what happens to you and how things are going with your life. It hurts me when I hear about bad things happening to people I love and care about especially when those bad things happened because of something they did wrong themselves! So please don’t let this break up between us get any worse than it already is…
I hope someday (maybe not too soon) we’ll be able to talk again like friends do without being afraid that one of us will get angry or start an argument over something stupid.
Dear [boyfriend],
I cannot lie and say that what you have done does not hurt. The pain I feel is real and I know it will take time for me to heal. But one thing I know for sure, I am not going to let you destroy me and my life.
I forgive you for cheating on me because it wasn’t something you planned on doing. It was a mistake and I believe in giving people second chances. I’m willing to give this relationship another shot, but this time things will be different and we will be stronger than ever before.
To my cheating boyfriend,
I forgive you. I know that what you did was wrong, and I know that you regret it. But I also know that you’re a good person deep down. You made a mistake, but it doesn’t change who you are. It doesn’t change how much I love you.
I forgive you for cheating on me with another woman, even though I know it’s not something that should be forgiven. And trust me when I say this isn’t easy for me to do — it’s not easy for anyone to accept the fact that their partner betrayed them so deeply. But the only way this relationship will work is if we move forward from here together. If we don’t forgive each other for our mistakes, then there’s no way this relationship will last much longer than it already has.
I want us to be together forever, and I want us to be happy again one day soon.
Dear [my boyfriend’s name],
I’m writing this letter to tell you that I forgive you for cheating on me. I want to make it clear that my forgiveness does not mean that I accept what you did, but I do want to let go of the bitterness and anger that has been consuming me for the past two weeks.
I know it is hard for you to admit your mistakes, especially when they involve hurting someone close to you. But if no one ever tells you when they are disappointed or angry with you, then how will they ever know? You have been avoiding me since the day we broke up, which makes it even harder for me to talk about this with you. But I don’t want to keep things bottled up inside anymore. We need to talk about this as soon as possible so we can move forward together again.
Dear [boyfriend],
I want you to know that I forgive you. I know that the cheating was a mistake and not something you intended to do, but it happened and it hurt me. I’m letting go of the hurt, though, because I believe in us.
I know that you didn’t mean to hurt me, but the pain is real. You said it yourself: There are no words to describe how sorry I am for hurting you. I believe that statement completely, because if there were words, then you would have used them already. You haven’t done anything wrong by saying this, because it is true.
Dear [Boyfriend’s Name],
I’m writing this letter because I think it is time for us to talk about the last few months of our relationship. While I am hurt and angry, I still care about you as a friend and partner. I want to move forward with our relationship, but before we can do that we need to get past this hurdle.
I want to forgive you for cheating on me. I know it was a mistake and one that is easily fixable. But there are some things that must be done before we move on from this incident.
First, we need to talk about what happened between us and what went wrong between us before we can move forward together again. Second, we need to discuss how we can prevent this from happening again so that we don’t lose each other over something like this again in the future.
Dear [boyfriend’s name],
I forgive you for cheating on me. I know that it must have been hard to do that and I don’t blame you. You were probably so lonely and needed someone to fill the void in your life, but I am here now, waiting for you with open arms.
You are my everything, my world and my reason to live. Every day without you is a struggle, but I will make it through because I love you so much. I will fight for us until the end because I believe that we can make it if we just try hard enough.
I know that this might not be easy for you either, but give me time and space so I can heal from this pain and move on with my life again.
Dear [Cheating Boyfriend],
I have to say I am very disappointed with you. How could you do this to me? I thought we had something special, but it turns out all you wanted was $ex. You have broken my heart and there is no way I can ever trust you again.
But I’m going to forgive you because I have faith in love.
I know that deep down inside, you are a good person who made a mistake. And maybe one day when I least expect it, you will come back into my life and prove that there was more to this relationship than just sex. In fact, I hope that one day we will be able to laugh about this together and start all over again from scratch.
Dear [insert his name],
I know this is going to be hard for you to hear, but I forgive you. I know that you made a mistake and that you have regrets about what happened, but I also know that it’s time for us to move forward with our relationship. You are my best friend and I love you more than anything in this world. You have been there for me when nobody else was and have always been there when I needed someone to talk to or just someone to cry on. You’ve helped me through some of my hardest times and even though technically you may not be cheating on me anymore because we’re no longer together, at least not yet anyway, I know that it will take time before we get back together again.
I want us to get back together because I still love you more than any other person in this world and if nothing else, we need each other right now in order to get through our current situation. This isn’t easy for either one of us but we both need each other right now more than ever before in order for us both to move forward with our lives without feeling like we’re missing something important from them.
Dear [Name],
I’m sorry that I’ve been so distant lately. Things have been really hard for me, but I know I haven’t been fair to you. I think you deserve better than that from me.
I want to start by saying that I forgive you for cheating on me with [girl’s name]. I know that it was a mistake and that it wasn’t meant to be anything more than a one-night stand. You probably don’t even remember her name or what she looked like! That’s fine, it’s not important anymore.
What is important is that you and I are together again, and we’re going to make this work this time around. It won’t be easy, but I know we can do it if we try hard enough.
Dear [my cheating boyfriend],
I hope you are doing well. I am writing this letter to let you know that I have forgiven you for what happened between us.
I have been thinking about our relationship and how much you mean to me. You are my best friend and I know that we can get through this if we just keep talking to each other from the heart. I still love you very much and want our relationship to be restored back to normal so that we can continue living happily together.
I want us to work out our differences and make things better again. It will be a very long journey but I am willing to take it with all my heart because I know that it will only lead us closer together in the end.
My darling,
I forgive you for hurting me, for breaking my heart, for shattering my trust in you. I forgive you for not being able to tell me what was going on in your head, why you felt the need to cheat on me, why you couldn’t be honest with me about it. I forgive you for not being able to see how much pain you were causing me, how much it hurt to think that the person I loved had betrayed me and lied to me about everything we shared together.
But most of all, I forgive you because I know how hard it is to change who we are. And if there’s one thing that I believe in wholeheartedly, it’s that people can change if they want to. You have an opportunity now to become a better person and prove your love for me by doing so.
I love you and want us to work through this together.
Dear [Cheating Boyfriend],
I’m writing this letter to you because I feel like you are the only one who can fully understand how much pain and suffering I have been going through since you cheated on me. You have caused me so much pain and heartache, but I hope that you will take this as an opportunity to change yourself for the better.
I know that it takes a lot of courage to admit your mistakes and ask for forgiveness, but this is what makes us human. We all make mistakes, but the difference between people who succeed in life and those who fail is their ability to admit their mistakes and learn from them. This is what makes forgiveness possible.
I forgive you for hurting me so badly, because I know that you never meant to hurt me in any way. What happened was out of our control, but no matter what happens in life, we must never lose hope and keep fighting until we are victorious over our enemies.
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Dear [Cheating Boyfriend],
I am writing to tell you that I forgive you for cheating on me. I have been thinking about what happened and I realize that I am not angry at you. You made a mistake, but I made one too. We both made mistakes and that is why we are going through this difficult time together.
I understand that this was not your intention and that you were not trying to hurt me. You are a good person who has made a bad decision in life, but I respect that you apologized and admitted your mistake. You have shown me how sorry you are by apologizing and crying in front of me when I confronted you about the affair.
I know how hard it is to admit to cheating because it is something that most people do not want to talk about or admit to doing themselves, so thank you for being honest with me and showing me how much you care about our relationship by coming clean with what happened between us.
I also realize now that it wasn’t just my fault for putting pressure on us to get married after three years together; it was partially yours too since we should have waited longer before getting engaged like we did!
To My Boyfriend,
We have been together for 3 years. I will not lie to you, I was hurt when I found out that you cheated on me. But as time goes by, I realize that we are not meant to be together. You were a good boyfriend but I’m afraid our relationship has come to an end. It’s hard for me to believe that you cheated on me because you told me that you loved me and would never do something like this again after we broke up last year.
I know it’s hard for you too but we need to move on with our lives. I hope one day we will find someone who will really love us and treat us better than what we have done before.
I wish you all the best in life, goodbye!
Dear Boyfriend,
I forgive you for cheating on me.
I know that it was a mistake and that you are sorry for what happened. I really appreciate the fact that you have come forward and told me the truth. It shows me that you have a good heart and want to be honest with me.
I am willing to work through this with you. I do not want to lose you because of one mistake that we both made, but it is important for me to know that we are both committed to making our relationship work.
I know how difficult it can be for both of us to move past this, but I am willing to try if you are.
Dear [Cheating Boyfriend],
I’m writing to you to tell you that I forgive you for cheating on me. I know it wasn’t easy for you to admit your mistake, but it was brave of you to do so. I know this isn’t what you wanted, but it’s over now and we can move forward with our lives.
I want to thank you for being honest with me and letting me know the truth even if it hurt my feelings. It was hard hearing about your affair, but I know that we can make this right again. Forgiveness is always an option when people are truly sorry for their mistakes.
I know our relationship was not perfect before this happened, but we have always been good together and I believe that we can be better than ever now that we have cleared up our misunderstanding from the past few months.
Dear Cheating Boyfriend,
I am writing this letter to you with a heavy heart. I know that the pain of infidelity is very painful, and it is difficult to forgive those who have hurt us. But I want you to know that I forgive you. I know it must have been hard for you to do what you did, and I know that it was not easy for me as well; but we are both still here, and we need each other more than ever.
I do not expect that we will ever be able to go back to the way things were before, but I hope that we can find a way forward together. There may be times when we will disagree about how things should be done in the future or about how we should interact with each other; but no matter what happens between us from now on, I want you to know that I love you and that our relationship is important to me.
Dear [Cheating Boyfriend],
It’s been two weeks since you’ve left my life. Two weeks since you told me that you were going to be with another woman, and two weeks since I’ve been able to eat or sleep properly. I know it’s not your fault, but it’s hard not to blame you for what happened.
Things were great between us at first; we had so much fun together and laughed all the time. But then things started changing, we started spending less time together, and you started getting annoyed with me more easily than before. It felt like something was wrong, but I never thought it would get this bad!
I feel so stupid now, because I should have known better than to trust someone who wasn’t faithful in the first place! I guess some people aren’t meant to be together forever, but thankfully there are plenty of others out there who are willing to give us a chance!
Dear [Boyfriend],
I know that what you did was wrong. I know that it was a terrible thing to do, but I have forgiven you and I will always forgive you.
The reason why I forgive you is because of the love we share. Even though many people would say that this is over, I still believe that we can make it work. The love and friendship between us are strong enough to overcome any obstacle and make our relationship last forever.
I understand how much pain you must have been going through when you made the mistake of cheating on me, but now the only thing that matters is moving forward from here and putting this behind us so we can continue loving each other like we used to do before all this happened.
It’s not easy for me either when something like this happens in our lives, but we need to stay strong together and know that everything will be okay in time if we just keep believing in each other and trust each other again like before.
I’m sorry if things got out of hand between us because of this incident, but please don’t think that I’m going anywhere or give up on our relationship just because of one mistake.
Dear [Boyfriend’s Name],
I’m writing this letter to tell you that I forgive you. There is no reason for us to hold on to the past. We have both made mistakes and we have both suffered through the consequences. But now it’s time to move on and build a better future together.
I know that when you cheated on me it was because of your deep-seated issues with self-confidence and trust. I also know that you were going through a lot of stress at work and that this stress led to your depression, which caused your cheating. I understand why you did what you did, but it wasn’t fair for us both. I know that if we continue down this road together then we will be able to overcome these obstacles together as well!
[Boyfriend’s name], please forgive yourself for what happened between us in the past because it wasn’t your fault. The only person responsible for our relationship breaking down was me, not you or anyone else! It was my fault because I didn’t give myself enough time to heal after my father passed away back in [date]. It took me longer than expected.
Dear Boyfriend,
I forgive you for cheating on me. I forgive you for breaking my heart and leaving me in pieces.
I forgive you for making me feel worthless and unloved.I forgive you for not realizing how much I love you and how much I needed you to be there for me when I needed someone the most.
I forgive you for not being a man of his word and keeping his promises. I forgive you for not being able to be faithful to me no matter how hard we tried to make it work between us.
I forgive you for hurting me so bad that it took years before I was able to trust another person again after our relationship ended.
I forgive you because I am happy now, even though there are days where I still think about what we had together and wish things would have turned out differently between us because our time together was truly special and worth keeping in my heart forever as one of those special moments that make life worth living.
Dear [Boyfriend],
I can’t get over you. I’ve tried, but I just can’t. I feel like you’re all I have left.
I know our relationship isn’t perfect, but it’s all we’ve got right now. I know that it’s not just me who has been hurt by this whole affair thing, but it is me who is trying to fix things and make them better between us.
I want to forgive you for everything that happened between us. I want to forget about it and move on with our life together.
You were my first love and my only love until this point in time. I never expected things to be like this when we first met each other, but here we are now and things are not at all how we imagined them to be when we were younger or even older than today.
Dear [My Boyfriend],
I don’t know how to start this letter. I have so many things in my mind and heart, but I don’t know where to begin. I’m sure you might be thinking that I’m going to leave you because of what you did, but I can assure you that it will not happen.
You broke my heart, but I know that it was not your fault. You are young and you wanted to experience life outside our relationship. You need to learn about life and make mistakes in order for us both to grow up together.
I forgive you for what happened between us last night. It was not planned nor expected, but it happened nonetheless. I am here for you even if we break up or stay together as a couple. You are still my best friend no matter what happens between us two or with anyone else in this world, I love you!
Dear [Cheating Boyfriend],
I am writing this letter to forgive you for what you did. I know it was wrong and really hurt me. But it is not my place to make you feel bad about yourself for what you did. I can only forgive you, and that is what I want to do. I will always love you and want to be with you, but if we stay together, it has to be because we love each other and want to be together, not because we are afraid of breaking up.
I forgive you for cheating on me, but I don’t have to forget it. What happened between us is done and cannot be changed or undone by either of us now. You have apologized for your actions and asked for forgiveness, which means you understand that what you did was wrong. That’s all that matters now; the past cannot be changed or forgotten no matter how hard we try.
