Goodbye Letter To Boyfriend That Will Make Him Cry

Goodbyes are hard, especially to a boyfriend one used to love. You can use these sample letters as a guide in composing your letter.

Goodbye Letter To Boyfriend That Will Make Him Cry

Dear [boyfriend name],

I’ve been thinking about you a lot lately. I know that things have been difficult for us, and we’ve had some problems in the past few months. But I’m writing this letter because I think that you’re amazing, and I’m so glad to have met you.

I remember when we first started dating, how shy you were around me, how nervous you were about me seeing where you lived or spending time with your family. It was so cute!

But then one day, as we were relaxing on the couch together after dinner at home, it all clicked for me: You are an amazing person who deserves nothing but happiness and love in this world. And if you don’t feel like that right now… well, then maybe it’s time for both of us to start looking elsewhere for what we want.

I don’t know what the future holds for us; maybe we’ll get back together someday, maybe not. Maybe we won’t ever be able to see each other again without having some sort of awkwardness between us that wasn’t there before and maybe that would be okay too.

Dear [boyfriend],

I know it’s hard to believe, but we’re saying goodbye.

I know this is hard for both of us. You may be feeling angry or sad. You might feel like no one understands what you’re going through right now. But I want you to know that I’m here for you. I’ll always be here for you, no matter how long it takes for us to get back together again.

Remember the good times we had together? Remember how we met at that party? And how when we met, the world seemed like such a beautiful place? Remember all those times we spent together on the beach? Remember how much fun it was just talking about our day and falling asleep next to each other? Don’t forget those moments either! They were important too and they’ll always be with me as well.

I’ll always remember our time together fondly, and hopefully one day soon we’ll be able to look back on this time with a smile instead of with tears in our eyes.

Dear [name],

I’m sorry I haven’t been able to tell you this in person, but I want to let you know that it’s time for me to go. Even though we’ve only been together for a short time, I’ve never felt closer to someone than I have with you. And even though it hurts to leave you now, I know that this is the right thing for both of us.

I know that there will be times when we’ll miss each other terribly, and times when we’ll look back on the good times we shared and wonder why it had to end. But don’t forget: we have each other’s memories, and those are all that really matter at the end of the day.

But even though we’re going to break up, that doesn’t mean we can’t still be friends. We’ll still text each other every day (you won’t even notice!), and we can hang out whenever you want to come over and watch Netflix with me (I’ll even make popcorn ). You’ll always have a special place in my heart, but we just don’t fit together anymore.

You deserve someone who will treat you like an equal partner, who will respect your feelings and support your goals… someone who will love you for exactly who you  are, not what they want from you or how they want you to change your behavior so that YOU fit better with their wants/needs/desires/etcetera ad nauseum ad infinitum until infinity.

Goodbye, my love.

I know you think that this is the end, but it’s not. I promise. You will find someone else who loves you in a way that I never could, and they’ll make you happy. And even if they don’t, I know that you will be okay. You’re strong, and you have so much potential to be great at whatever you put your mind to.

I’m so proud of the man you’ve become—the person you are now and the one who is yet to come. Whatever happens next for us, I will always remember all of our memories together as the most beautiful part of my life thus far.

You’ve taught me so much about myself about what makes me happy, what makes me sad, what makes me angry… how much power there is in vulnerability… how to let myself feel things deeply without feeling ashamed or scared by them… how important it is to listen to my heart and follow my dreams.

You were always there for me when I needed someone to listen and even when sometimes all I wanted was for someone else to talk about their problems for once! You were always so understanding and supportive of me, which meant more than anything else could have ever

Dear [boyfriend name],

I’m writing this letter because I have something important to tell you. My feelings for you are not the same as they were before. I feel like I’m changing and growing, but the person I’m becoming is not the person you fell in love with. And that’s okay—it’s normal for people to change over time, especially when they’re going through some big life changes. But it’s not okay for me to stay in a relationship that makes me unhappy, just because it’s what we’ve always done and what we’ve always known.

So today, I’m breaking up with you. It’s not easy for me, but it has to be done. In order to continue on the path toward becoming who I really want to be, I need space from our relationship so that I can figure out how much of our past still matters to me and how much of our future we can still build together. You deserve someone who will make you happy every day and if you can’t find that person within yourself, then maybe it’s time for us both to move on.

I hope that someday we’ll find ourselves back together again, but right now this is where we both need to be: apart.

Dear [boyfriend’s name],

It’s been a pleasure to know you. I’ve been lucky to have you in my life, and I’ll always treasure the time we spent together.

You will always have a special place in my heart, even if it’s not one that is warm right now.

Please don’t cry too much, it doesn’t suit you, Just remember that we had good times together and that we had shared values and interests. Those are things that will stay with me forever, so this goodbye isn’t really goodbye at all, just see you later.

Dear [boyfriend’s name],

I know we haven’t been together very long, but I want you to know that this doesn’t change anything about how much I care about you. I’m so grateful for all the memories we’ve made together, the good and the bad. They’ve all taught me something important about myself and made me who I am today.

And what do they say? “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” So while you’re out there living your life, just remember that no matter what happens, as long as you keep doing what makes YOU happy, then I’ll always be here waiting for you when you get back home.

Dear [Boyfriend’s name],

I’m writing this letter to you because I have some things that I need to say. I know that you won’t read this, because you’re too busy focusing on your studies and finding a job, but I have to write it anyway.

You’ve been my best friend for the past few years, and even though we’ll be apart now, that doesn’t mean that our relationship is over. We will always be connected in some way whether it’s through Facebook or Snapchat, or even just seeing each other out in public. And who knows? Maybe one day we’ll see each other again.

The thing is: I want more than just friendship from you. It hurts me when you don’t treat me like your girlfriend like someone special who deserves all your attention and affection. And while I know it’s hard for you right now, please don’t forget about me! You are important to me, so try not to take yourself out of my life completely just because we aren’t together anymore.

I hope this letter finds its way into your hands.

Dear [name],

You are the most beautiful man I have ever known, inside and out. You are kind, gentle, and selfless. I will never forget the moments we shared together.

I love you so much that it hurts to think about leaving you behind. But I need to do this for myself and for us. We will find each other again someday, but until then…

Goodbye my love, goodbye my life

Dear [boyfriend’s name],

I hope you don’t mind me writing this letter, but I feel like I need to get some things off my chest. You’re the love of my life and have been since we met at that party in college. I honestly thought that the two of us would be together forever, but now it looks like that won’t happen after all.

I’m going to miss you so much. We were always there for each other when we needed someone to talk to or just be around during those lonely nights after work when everything feels a bit too much. I appreciate everything you’ve done for me over the years, especially how well you took care of me when I was sick last winter, you were such an amazing boyfriend.

I know this isn’t easy for either one of us right now, but please remember that I love you more than anything else in this world (and probably any other).

Dear [name],

I need to tell you something. It’s hard for me, but I hope that it’s easier for you. I’m leaving you. It’s not your fault and it’s not mine, we’ve just grown apart. We’re not the same people we were when we met, and it’s time for both of us to move on.

I know this is going to be difficult for a lot of reasons. You’re going to miss me, and I’m going to miss you too  very much. But I have to go now, because if we stay together neither of us will ever be happy. We’ll just keep getting more distant from each other until there isn’t anything left of either one of us except some vague sense of longing or regret or nostalgia or whatever else it is that makes up the feeling of being in love with someone long after they’ve left your life forever (which is actually quite a lot).

So goodbye, [name]. Thank you for everything. You were my best friend when I needed you most, but now we’ve both got new lives and new friends who will love us just as much as we deserve to be loved by someone else someday soon and eventually even better.

Dear my love,

I never thought I would have to write this letter. I never thought that we would part ways so soon. But, then again, I never thought we’d be together in the first place.

You have been the most wonderful person I could have ever imagined meeting. You’ve helped me grow and learn about myself in ways I never thought possible. You’ve made me feel like a princess and showed me what true love really feels like.

I hope you know that every day you spent with me was the best day of your life and every day without you will be the worst day of mine. No matter where life takes us or how far apart we are, no matter what happens next or if we ever see each other again: know that I will always love you and cherish our time together forever.

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