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Goodbye Letter To Cheating Husband
Dear Husband,
I’m writing this letter to you because the situation between us has become unbearable. I can’t take it anymore. I need to let go of all the anger, resentment, and hurt that you’ve caused me over the years.
You have been unfaithful in your marriage and there’s nothing I can do about it now. You’ve lied to me every time you said “I love you” or “I’ll never cheat on you again.” You’ve broken our vows and commitments as husband and wife.
You’ve left me feeling used, worthless, and unlovable. You’ve made me feel like I don’t deserve better than what I have right now. But no matter how much pain or heartache you put me through, I will always love you because that’s what real love is, unconditional love.
Dear [Your Husband’s Name],
This is a letter I’ve been wanting to write for a long time now. It’s not easy, but I know it needs to be done.I’ve been married to you for [X] years now, and I remember the day we met like it was yesterday. You were wearing a suit and tie, with your hair slicked back, and I thought you were so handsome. Right away I knew that we would be together forever.
You proposed to me on our first date and we got married soon after that. Over the years we’ve had our ups and downs, but nothing could ever tear us apart. We were always there for each other no matter what happened or how bad things got, until now.
It’s hard for me to admit this but, I cheated on you! With another man! How could I do such a thing? How could I hurt the person who has always been there for me? But it wasn’t something that just happened out of nowhere; it’s something that has been brewing inside of me for some time now.
Dear Husband,
I am writing this letter to you with a heavy heart. I have had so many sleepless nights lately, thinking about our marriage and what it has become. I know that you love me and that you want to be with me but I can’t help but wonder if it is enough. You see, I’ve been feeling neglected by you for quite some time now and it’s not because of anything that you have done or haven’t done. It’s because of the fact that we are both so busy with our careers and the kids that we seem to have drifted apart over the years. We no longer talk like we used to and even when we do talk, it feels more like we are talking about work or the kids instead of each other!
I know that there are issues between us too; things like how often we have sex (or don’t), how often we go out with friends together as a couple without our friends or family around, who gets more attention from our parents when they come to visit us…these are all things that can be worked out if we just sat down and talked about them but unfortunately, neither of us has made any effort to do so lately.
Dear [Husband],
I have tried so hard to make our marriage work. I have done everything in my power to make you happy and create a home where we could raise our children. I have given you my entire heart and soul. But, it’s clear that you don’t want or need me anymore.
I don’t want to be married to someone who doesn’t love me or want me in his life. You don’t even seem to care about our children anymore; they are just an object in your life that you use to hurt me with. You don’t even know them well enough to care about them!
I’m sad for all the wasted years of my life on a marriage that was never going to work out anyway because you were already cheating on me when we got married! You didn’t even wait until after the honeymoon was over! We were only married for two months before you started cheating on me with other women! What kind of man does that?!
It took me months before I found out about it all because I had no idea what was going on in your life. When I finally did find out, it broke my heart into pieces and made me feel like nothing more than trash!
Dear Husband,
I am so sorry. I’m sorry that I didn’t see the signs earlier. I’m sorry that I’ve spent the past week crying and screaming at you, when all I want to do is hold you close and tell you how much I love you.
I’m sorry that it took me this long to realize what a wonderful man you are, and how lucky we were to find each other.
It’s not your fault that things didn’t work out between us. It’s mine. I should have given you more of myself than just my body, but I thought that was enough for both of us at the time. And now it’s too late for me to change anything, too late for me to go back in time and make things right between us again if only because there’s no place for me in your life anymore.
But maybe someday down the road when things have cooled down between us and we can talk about it without getting upset or angry or crazy with jealousy, maybe then we’ll be able to see each other again as friends or family members instead of lovers (if we ever really were lovers).
Dear Husband,
I am writing to you today to tell you that I am leaving you. I have been a loyal wife to you for many years and have given you all that I could.
I loved you when we were both young and in love. I loved you when we were poor and didn’t have two nickels to rub together. I loved you when we had financial security and a nice life style.
I supported your career when it took off, followed you around the country on business trips, and never complained about being lonely or bored.
I took care of our home and raised our children while trying to be the best mother they could possibly have. I was always there for them whenever they needed me.
I forgave your indiscretions time after time, because I loved you so much and believed in our marriage vows that say “for better or worse”. But after all these years of putting up with your cheating ways, it has finally taken its toll on me emotionally and physically.
So this is my farewell letter to you as well as our marriage, so long, farewell…good riddance!
Dear Husband,
I want to take this opportunity to thank you for everything that you have done for me. You were a great husband and father. You were always there for us when we needed you and I will forever be grateful for that.
I also want to thank you for cheating on me with my best friend. It was very immature of you and I hope that this experience has taught you a valuable lesson about how to treat other people.
Please understand that I am not angry or upset at all. I know that this was an accident and that it was not your intention to hurt me in any way. However, since it happened, I feel it is only fair that we should end our marriage. This will give both of us time to think about our future without each other by our side.
I wish you all the happiness in the world and hope that one day we can be friends again because no matter what happens between us now, nothing will ever change the love I have for you as parents or as individuals.
Dear Sir,
I am writing this letter to inform you that I am leaving your life forever. I am not going to look back and neither will I regret. The reason is very simple: You are a cheater and there is no place for a cheater in my life.
I have known about your affair with another woman for the past few months and although I was shocked when I first found out, I was more than willing to give you the benefit of doubt, thinking that maybe it was just an infatuation or a fling and not something serious.
But now that I know you were having sex with her for more than six months now, I decided it’s time to put an end to our marriage. And since you don’t want me anymore, then let me tell you clearly: Don’t ever try contacting me again because if you do, then you’ll be sorry.
Goodbye!
Dear Husband,
It is with a heavy heart that I am writing this letter to you. I have no words or explanations as to why you cheated on me and how could you do this to me? If you were unhappy in our marriage, all you had to do was talk to me and we would have worked it out together. You are the one who said that we would be together forever, but it seems like forever is not enough for you. You are the one who vowed to love me unconditionally yet here you are breaking my heart and ripping my soul apart.
I thought we had a good marriage and we had something special going on between us. I remember when we got married, there was nothing but love between us. We didn’t have any problems at all until recently when things started changing around here like they did with other people in their marriages. It kind of hit me like a ton of bricks when I found out that you were cheating on me with another woman behind my back because this is what everyone else was doing too!
I didn’t want to believe it at first because if this was true then I would have nowhere else to turn but God because he would be the only person who could comfort me during this difficult time.
Dear (Name),
You’re a bastard. You’ve been my husband for nearly two years now and I’ve loved you more than anyone in the world. But I can’t do this anymore.
I don’t want to go into specifics and I know that whatever you tell me won’t change anything. But I’m done with you, You can keep the house, the car, and the dog. I’m leaving tonight and taking everything with me.
Goodbye
Dear [Cheating Husband],
I am writing this letter to you in the hopes that you will read it and know what I have known for some time now. The truth. The truth is, I don’t know if you will ever read this letter or not. But I need to write it anyway because it’s time for me to move on with my life and find happiness again.
I’ve known for a long time that our marriage was in trouble, maybe even before we got married. You knew too. We both thought we could make things work by going through counseling and trying harder but it just didn’t work out for us.
The last few months have been hard on both of us and I’m sure you’ve had your own struggles with our relationship as well as your job and other things going on in your life at the same time that were causing problems between us. It hasn’t been easy for either one of us but I think we can both agree that it’s just not working anymore between us so it’s time for us to finally divorce each other so we can move on with our lives separately rather than together anymore. I love you but this marriage can not work out.
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Dear Husband,
I have written this letter as a way of saying goodbye. I have also taken the liberty of packing your bags for you. I’ve decided to move on with my life without you and I hope that someday you will be able to forgive yourself and find happiness again. I want you to know that I love you very much but I cannot stay married to someone who doesn’t love me enough to keep their vows and remain faithful. Our marriage means nothing if it can be broken so easily by someone else’s charms or promises. You have broken my trust and shattered my heart into a million pieces so many times now that there is nothing left for either of us. It hurts too much for me to do this anymore, so please go away and don’t come back until it is time for us to sign divorce papers and divide our assets like civilized adults should do when they get divorced after 20 years together with 2 children who need both parents in their lives more than ever before now that they are getting older and starting families of their own with other people whom they will marry someday too!
Dear Husband,
Today I’m writing you a goodbye letter. I can’t stay anymore. I’ve tried my best to make things work between us but it’s clear that you don’t love me anymore. You’ve been cheating on me for quite some time now and I can’t take it anymore. You have children with me and we have been living together for years so why would you do this to me? What about our vows? Are they not enough for you? Have we not been through enough already? Why do you have to hurt me like this?
I know this may come as a shock to you but I’ve decided that it’s better for me if I move out of our home and move on with my life. With all the pain that your actions have caused me, it’s no longer possible for us to live under one roof with each other anymore.
I hope someday in the future, when all of this is behind us, we’ll be able to talk without arguing about everything because right now it’s just too much stress for both of us.
Goodbye
Dear Husband,
I have been married to you for a long time now. And I have always loved you even when we were not together.
I remember when you proposed me and I accepted your proposal with all my heart and soul.
I remember the days we spent together in our first apartment, buying furniture, cooking together, going out on dates and coming back home late at night. I remember the day we got married with so much joy and happiness. It was like a dream come true for both of us!
But now it seems like everything has changed. You’ve changed! And our relationship has suffered because of this change in you!
I don’t know what happened between us but one thing is clear: Your cheating has torn apart our relationship completely!
I wish I could get over this pain but it’s just too difficult for me to forget everything that happened between us!
Dear Husband,
I just want you to know that I have finally decided to leave you. I have been thinking about it for a long time, but the thought of leaving you behind has been haunting me day and night. I can’t take it anymore, so this letter is to let you know that I am going away and will not be coming back.
I hope you will understand why I am doing this and forgive me for everything that we have been through together.
I was never really happy with our relationship as you were always cheating on me with other women, but instead of confronting you about it, I chose to ignore it hoping that things would change. And they did change after we got married because there were no more affairs, but then again I couldn’t trust you anymore so I started suspecting everything about your activities.
I don’t think that we are going anywhere in this relationship as long as we are together because now even our sex life has become boring which makes me wonder if we still love each other or not?
Dear John,
I am writing this letter to you as a goodbye letter. I cannot continue living with you any longer. I have tried so hard to make our marriage work and have given you every chance possible but none of that matters now.
You have been cheating on me for months now and I can no longer deal with it. It has taken me this long to realize that I deserve something better than what you can give me. You have been sleeping around with other women behind my back and lying about it too. No one deserves that kind of treatment from their partner; least of all from their husband!
I know that there is no point in trying to explain myself to you because you will never understand why I am doing this unless it is for your own good! The sooner we both accept this reality, the better off we will be.
Dear Husband,
What can I say? I’ve never been one for big speeches. Words are not my strong suit. So I’ll keep this short and sweet.
You’ve done it again. You’ve cheated on me again. But this time, it’s different, because this time, I won’t be taking you back.
I know you didn’t mean to hurt me. You have no idea how much it hurts to know that the man I love more than anything has betrayed me like this. But it’s over now. We’re over now.
I hope your new girlfriend is worth it, because, after everything we’ve been through together, she deserves someone who will treat her right and give her everything she’s ever wanted in life, especially love.
Don’t contact me again unless you want to apologize one last time before we go our separate ways forever (and yes, even then I’m not sure if I’ll take your call).
Dear Husband,
Please accept this letter as my formal notice of leaving you. I am no longer your wife.
You have broken the sacred vows that we made to each other, and I will not stand for it any longer.
I used to love you so much, but now all I feel is disgust and anger. You are not the man that I married. You have changed into someone who is unrecognizable to me.
You were once my best friend, but now you’re just a stranger in my home. How could you do this to me? How could you cheat on me? How could you betray our family? How could you betray me?
I thought that we were happy together, but it turns out that nothing was ever enough for you. You wanted more than what we had, more money, more fame, more attention, and so instead of talking to me about it like an adult, you decided to go behind my back and betray our vows with some cheap floozy who didn’t even know who we were!
Dear [Husband’s Name],
I’m writing this letter to you because I need to tell you that I am done. I am done with us as a couple, and I am done with our marriage.
I know that you have been cheating on me for quite some time now, and I don’t want to talk about it anymore. It makes me feel sick inside and out to think about what you have done over the past year or so. And it makes me sad that all this time, you were having an affair behind my back.
Our relationship is not what it used to be, so there is no point in trying to make it work anymore. You have ruined everything for us by lying about who you are and what your intentions were when we first met. You said that you wanted a family with me, but all along you had someone else in mind—someone who wasn’t me at all! Your betrayal of our relationship is unforgivable, and there is nothing left for us here other than heartache and pain between us both.
Dear Husband,
Well, this is it. I can’t believe that it has come to this, but I guess it’s for the best. I’m sorry if you’re hurt or upset, but I just can’t do this anymore. You’ve broken my heart and betrayed me in the worst possible way, and I don’t think there’s any coming back from that.
I know that you thought that what you were doing was no big deal and would never come back to bite us in the ass. But now it has, and I don’t see how we can ever go back from this point.
You’ve ruined our marriage, our family, and even your reputation at work by being caught cheating on your wife with another woman! How could you do that? Did you have sex with her right before coming home to me? Did you think about me while doing it? Did she smell like me? Was she better in bed than me?
I guess I’ll never know now. Maybe one day when you’re older and wiser (if there even is such a time), you’ll understand what happened here today and why things had to end like this between us two people who once loved each other so much.
Dear Husband,
I have tried everything in my power to save this marriage. I have been patient, understanding and forgiving. I have given you more chances than anyone else would have given you. You have had so many opportunities to change your ways but you continue to make the same mistakes over and over again. It is clear that you are not going to change. In fact, you are going to keep making the same mistakes until death do us part.
You may not realize it but your actions have taken a toll on me emotionally, physically and spiritually. You have broken me down into nothingness as if I was never there for you at all. If I didn’t exist in this world, neither would you be here today because without me, there’s no one left in your life who loves you unconditionally. There’s no one who will care for you when times get tough or when things go wrong because they already have gone wrong!
You don’t know how to love someone else because deep inside of you there’s a void that needs filling and it can only be filled by God himself through his grace and mercy!
Dear Cheating Husband,
It’s time for us to part ways. I know this will come as a shock to you but I have decided that I can no longer be with you. It isn’t because of your infidelity, it is because of the things you said and did after we found out about your affair.
I can forgive you for having an affair. Not everyone is perfect and we all make mistakes. However, what I cannot forgive is how you treated me after we found out about the affair. You made me feel like it was my fault that you were unfaithful. You accused me of not paying attention to you or being interested in our marriage anymore.
I want to let you know that this was never true! I loved our marriage and spent every day trying to make it work! I figured that if we just tried harder, we could make things work between us. But then one day something happened and it made me realize that no matter how much effort I put into our relationship, nothing would change if there wasn’t any love left between us anymore. Goodbye From (Wife).
