Goodbye Letter To Ex-boyfriend Who Cheated

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Goodbye Letter To Ex-boyfriend Who Cheated

Dear [ex-boyfriend],

I hope you are doing well. I am writing this letter to break up with you. I have thought about this for a long time, and I finally made up my mind.

I am breaking up with you because you cheated on me, and I cannot trust you anymore. When we first met, I thought we were going to be together forever. But then everything changed when one of your exes contacted me on Facebook and told me that she had seen you kissing another girl in a club.

After that, things just did not feel the same between us. You started acting different more distant and secretive than usual which made it difficult for me to trust you again. I wanted to give us another chance after that incident but then something else happened: another one of your exes contacted me on Facebook and told me that she had seen you kissing yet another girl in a bar!

That was the final straw for me because by now I could no longer trust you or believe anything you told me about yourself or your past relationships with other women especially since all three incidents involved meeting up at bars late at night where alcohol is readily available (and often abused).

Dear ex-boyfriend,

I was a fool to think you were different from other men. I guess I was hoping that you would be the one to break that stereotype, but that is not the case. I am writing this letter to let you know that I am moving on with my life and will not be looking back at this relationship anymore.

During our time together, I realized that you were always cheating on me behind my back and lying about it. You were never honest with me about how you felt about me or what was going on in your life. If you had been honest with me, we could have avoided all of this drama and heartbreak between us.

I feel like we cannot ever have an honest relationship because everything has been built on lies and deception since day one of our relationship. It hurts me to think that all of this time has gone by and we have wasted our lives together when it could have just been over after the first time that you cheated on me.

I wish things could have turned out differently between us so maybe one day we would have ended up together again if things had worked out better in our lives, but I guess there’s no point dreaming about something like that anymore.

Dear [ex-boyfriend],

I’m writing to you because I have some important things to say.

I understand that we have had a bad breakup and that it is very difficult for both of us. You cheated on me and I am furious. But this letter is not intended to make you feel bad or even to make you realize the error of your ways. This letter is for me, for closure, and for the end of our relationship.

When I first met you, I thought that we would be together forever. But now that we are over, I see that it was not meant to be. Maybe we were not meant to be together at all? Or maybe there are better things waiting for us down the road? That remains to be seen, but one thing is certain, we will never be together again.

Dear [ex-boyfriend’s name],

I’m writing this letter because I feel like there’s some things we need to get off our chests.

I know that it’s been a while since you cheated on me with [name of girl who also cheated on him], but I still think about it every day. It hurts, and I’m still trying to get over it.

I don’t want to go into too much detail here, but the fact that you cheated makes me feel like you don’t respect me or care about me as much as I thought you did. That’s not something that can be fixed overnight or even in the span of a few months, or even years but it’s something that needs to be repaired if we’re going to have any chance at reconciling in the future.

Hello, [ex-boyfriend],

It’s been a while since I’ve written to you. The breakup has been hard on me, and I wanted to take some time to get over it before I reached out to you again. But now that I’m ready to start healing from the hurt, I want to send you this letter as a way of saying goodbye and letting go of our relationship.

I know that in the past we had some issues with trust and communication—and that’s what led to our breakup. You cheated on me with another woman, which was really painful for me because I thought we were really close. But after some time apart from you and some reflection on what happened between us, I realized that this wasn’t about trust or communication at all, it was about how different we are as people. And even if we had been able to communicate better during our relationship (which is something we should both work on!), it wouldn’t have fixed the fact that we just don’t work well together romantically or otherwise.

So thank you for everything, for being my first boyfriend, for introducing me to music festivals and delicious treats like avocado toast (which will always hold a special place in my heart).

Dear [ex-boyfriend],

I’m writing this letter to you because I can’t look at you anymore. You have cheated on me so many times that I no longer trust you and I no longer feel like I love you. I don’t want to see you or talk to you or even think about seeing you or talking to you ever again.

I know that there are plenty of people who would be willing to take your side in all of this, but if there is one thing that I’ve learned from our relationship it’s that it’s not worth my time to argue with someone who doesn’t respect me and only sees me as an object for their own pleasure instead of a person who deserves respect and kindness.

So goodbye, [ex-boyfriend]. When we were together, I thought we could make it work, but now that it’s over, all I can do is hope that one day someone will come along who deserves me more than you ever did.

Dear [ex-boyfriend],

I’m writing this letter because I think it’s important for me to tell you how I feel. I don’t want to keep it all bottled up inside, and I hope that you’ll read this and really think about what you’ve done to me.

I know that we’ve had our ups and downs. It’s not always easy being in a relationship, especially when one person is more committed than the other. But that doesn’t mean that they can treat me like trash or use me as a punching bag whenever they feel like it. And yet that’s exactly what you did, you used me and made me feel worthless on a regular basis. You let other people make fun of me because they knew I wouldn’t stand up for myself. And then when someone else came along who treated me better than you ever have… well, that was just too much for you to bear! So you decided to cheat on me and then break up with me over text message? That’s low even for someone like you!

I know now that this isn’t going anywhere. We’re both moving on with our lives, but I still need an answer from you, why did you break up with me in that manner?

Dear [ex-boyfriend],

I am writing to you today because it has been six months since the end of our relationship, and I am ready to let go of the anger that has been holding me back. It is time for me to let go of my pain and disappointment, and move on with my life.

I don’t know if you will ever read this letter and even if you do, I doubt there will be much remorse or understanding from your end. But I need to write it anyway.

You cheated on me, [ex boyfriend]. You had an affair with someone who was not me. And when I confronted you about it, you lied to my face and made up an excuse about how she was just a friend that she worked at your office, but nothing more than that. I know now that wasn’t true: they were dating each other at the time. And yet still you lied to me so effortlessly! You betrayed my trust in every way possible: emotionally, physically, mentally and then you tried to make it

Dear [ex-boyfriend’s name],

I’m writing this letter to you in order to inform you that our relationship is over. I am ending it because of your behavior and the way you have treated me throughout our time together. I am breaking up with you because of your cheating and lying, which have made me feel like I cannot trust anything that comes out of your mouth.

I hope that someday you will be able to look back on this letter and see the good times we had, and remember how much fun it was to be together. But right now I need some space and time to heal after being hurt by you. So please don’t contact me or try to get back together with me until further notice. If you do try contacting me again before then, I will block all future messages from your phone number or email address without reading them first just so there’s no confusion about where we stand at this point in time regarding whether or not we’re still dating officially (which is not).

Thank you for reading this letter and understanding why we need to break up right now instead of later down the road when things start feeling normal again between us for whatever reason(s) that may be.

Dear [ex-boyfriend],

I’ve been thinking a lot about what happened between us. I know that we were both young and immature, but I feel like that’s no excuse for the way you treated me. You cheated on me, and then you lied to me. And when I confronted you about it, you said it was my fault because I’d been acting insecure.

But now that we’re not together anymore, I can see clearly what kind of person you are. And it’s not a good one.

You’re selfish and manipulative, you use people for your own gain and then throw them away when they’re no longer useful to you. You don’t care about anyone but yourself, and even then, only when it benefits you directly or when it makes other people jealous of how great your life is compared to theirs.

You don’t deserve happiness not from me, not from anyone else either. Your happiness comes from hurting other people so that they feel sorry for you or worried about them being next on your hit list! That’s not how relationships work! A relationship isn’t about taking advantage of someone else’s vulnerability so that they feel sorry for you when things go wrong.

Dear [ex-boyfriend],

I’m writing to tell you that I’ve moved on. You cheated on me and made me feel like nothing, but I’m not going to let you ruin my life.

I just want you to know that I don’t hate you. I don’t even dislike you. It’s not about feeling anything for you anymore; it’s about moving on from what happened and making sure it doesn’t happen again in the future.

I hope that someday, when you look back on our relationship, all of this will be a distant memory and one that doesn’t matter anymore. I hope that one day we can be friends at least, because we were good together in the beginning before things went wrong.

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