Letter To Lying Boyfriend (12 Samples)

So you caught your boyfriend in a lie. Wonder why he does it? He seems so nice and even sensitive. Here are some letters you can write to a lying boyfriend.

Letter To Lying Boyfriend

Dear [boyfriend’s name],

I’ve been thinking a lot about our relationship lately and I want to talk to you about something. I’m not sure how to say this, so I’m just going to come out with it. You’re lying.

I’ve been noticing that you’re lying more and more frequently in recent weeks and I don’t know what’s going on. It used to be that you only lied when we were arguing and you didn’t want me to get mad at you anymore, but now it seems like every other sentence out of your mouth is a lie.

I don’t know why this is happening or why it’s happening now, but we need to talk about it because this is not okay. We’ve been together for [how long?] years and I feel like we’re growing apart because all we do is fight about whether or not you’re being truthful with me, which isn’t healthy for either of us!

Dear [Boyfriend’s name],

I know you’ve been lying to me. I know you’re not in the hospital. And I know that you’re not sick. I saw you at the bar last night, drinking like a fish and flirting with every woman in sight. You had no idea that I was there, I was sitting at an adjacent table.

I don’t care if you don’t want to talk about it right now, but we need to talk about this soon. You can’t keep treating me like this, and I deserve better than this.

Dear [name],

I know you’ve been lying to me, and I just want to say that I’m sorry. I’m sorry that we can’t be together anymore. I know it’s not my fault, but that doesn’t mean I don’t feel guilty about it. I wish things could be different, I really do. But I’ve accepted that this is the way things are going to be from now on, and I hope you can too.

When we first started dating, everything was so wonderful. You were such a great guy, you were funny, smart, and caring but then gradually over time, something changed in your behavior. You started lying to me more often than not, and eventually you started cheating on me with other girls behind my back as well (I know this because one of them told me). Your lies became so frequent and so blatant that they started making me feel like our relationship wasn’t worth anything anymore, like it was just a waste of time for both of us if we couldn’t even trust each other anymore.

Now things have reached a head: we’re no longer together because of all this lying/cheating stuff that’s going on in your life right now and it breaks my heart every day knowing how much

Dear [boyfriend’s name],

I’m writing this letter to you because I don’t know what else to do. You’ve lied to me for the last time, and I can’t take it anymore.

I found out that you were cheating on me with [woman’s name]. You said it was just a one-night stand, but I know better. She told me all about how you told her that you loved her and wanted to be with her forever and now she’s pregnant with your baby.

You’re an awful person, and I don’t want anything to do with you anymore. Please leave me alone from now on.

Dear [boyfriend’s name],

I’m writing to you because I feel like you’ve been lying to me. I know this is a tough situation for you, and I want to help if I can.

You’re my best friend, and I want to make sure that this friendship is strong enough to withstand any challenges it may face. That’s why I want to talk about what’s going on with us: specifically, your lies.

I know that you’re struggling with some things right now, but the way you’ve been acting lately is making me feel like you don’t trust me anymore. It hurts me when we fight, so let’s please try not to do that anymore! If there are things we need to get off our chests or ways we can help each other out more often, let’s talk about it!

I’d love to hear from you soon!

Dear Boyfriend Name,

A few days ago, I was on Facebook and happened to see that you had changed your relationship status to “In a Relationship” with another girl.

I didn’t know how to feel about this news. I’m hurt that you would choose to keep this relationship a secret from me, but at the same time, I’m relieved because it means that we can finally move on from each other and go our separate ways forever.

I thought this was what we both wanted. We agreed that we’d be better off as friends than anything else. There’s no reason for us to stay together when we’ve clearly outgrown each other and have more in common with other people than each other these days.

I never thought I’d say this, but I’m glad that you told me about your new girlfriend before I found out from someone else first!

Dear boyfriend,

I am writing this letter to you because I am tired of the lies that are coming out of your mouth. You have been lying to me for so long now and I need to know why. You told me that you were going to be at work all day yesterday but when I texted you, you didn’t reply until late at night. You have been doing this for a while now and it is getting old. The thing is, it hurts me more than it hurts you. You don’t know how much it hurts when I find out that you have lied to me again and again. I thought that we had something special but now I feel like we don’t at all because every time we talk about our future together, it feels like there is something missing from the conversation.

Dear [my boyfriend],

I’m writing this to you because I can’t take it anymore. I’ve been with you for [insert length of relationship here] years, and I thought we had a pretty good relationship. We’ve been through so much together, but now I feel like our relationship is hanging by a thread. And it’s all because of your lies.

We’ve always had a bit of an issue with trust in our relationship, but I thought that we were past that now. But then something happened yesterday that just broke my heart. You told me that you were going out with your friends for dinner when actually you were at home having sex with your ex-girlfriend!

I know this isn’t the first time you’ve lied to me about something like this, but this is the last straw for me. I thought we could work things out and move forward as a stronger couple, but if we’re not honest with each other then what’s the point?

Dear (name),

I am writing to you because I am deeply hurt by your lies. From the day we started dating, you have always lied to me. You never told me that you were in a relationship with someone else before us. You never told me that you were still talking to her and exchanging messages every now and then. You never told me that she is going to be coming to our city soon. You never told me how much money you spent on her during her visit and how much money she borrowed from you when she was here. And now she is back home and all of these lies are coming out into the open. I feel like our whole relationship has been built on a foundation of lies and deceit.

What hurts even more is that when I asked about these things, all you could say was I’m sorry. Sorry doesn’t cut it anymore! You should have said no from the beginning instead of dragging me into this mess!

Dear lying boyfriend,

I’m writing this letter because I need to let you know that I am done with you. You have broken my heart and lied to me for way too long. The only reason why I am not completely over you is because of our past memories and the fact that you were there for me during my most difficult times. But now, it’s time for me to move on so that I can find someone who will treat me like a princess and never lie to me again.

The truth is that we weren’t meant to be together, but you didn’t listen to me when I said that. You kept telling me that we would be together forever and that nothing would ever break us apart. Well guess what? We are broken up now and it’s all your fault!

Dear Lying Boyfriend,

I am writing this letter to let you know that your lies are destroying me.

You lied about where you were going and who you were with. You lied when you said we could talk later because you were tired. You lied when you said everything was fine when clearly it wasn’t. And then you lied again by telling me that I was the only thing on your mind when clearly you had already moved on.

You have made me feel so insecure about our relationship and I’m not sure how much more of this I can take. How much longer do I need to wait for an explanation before I give up on us completely?

I thought we had something special but maybe that’s not true after all.

Dear lying boyfriend,

I don’t know what to say. I’m at a loss for words. You lied to me. You lied to everyone around you. And now you want me back?

You want me back after you broke my heart? After you made me feel like a fool? After you made me feel like shit? After you made me feel like nothing?

I can’t do it anymore! I can’t stand your lies anymore!

You’re not the man I fell in love with! You’re not the man who made me smile and laugh every time he’d come home from work! You’re not the man who said “I love you” every night before bedtime! You’re not the man who used to tell me how beautiful I was everyday and that he couldn’t help but stare at my face while he ate his dinner! You’re not the man who used to say I love you everyday before we went to sleep and good morning beautiful every morning when we woke up together! That man is gone. He doesn’t exist anymore because of YOU!

Check: Open Letter For Cheaters

Dear Boyfriend,

I am writing this letter to you because I am disappointed. You are a bad person and have lied to me for years. I have been with you for over five years now and I can say that I know everything about you. But despite knowing everything about you, I still love you.

I know that you have been cheating on me and lying to me all this time but it doesn’t matter to me as long as we are together. What matters is that we should be honest with each other and not lie to each other anymore because lies create problems in relationships and they break up the relationship between couples like ours who were meant for each other.

I know that there will be times when we may fall into temptation again, but don’t worry about it because I know that if we just stay strong enough we will never fail again in our relationship since we are both aware of what might happen if we continue to do things like this again.

I hope that this letter will help us both realize how important honesty is in our relationship so that we can continue using it when dealing with each other’s feelings and needs so that our relationship will last longer than ever before!

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