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A Goodbye Letter To The Love Of My Life
A Goodbye Letter To The Love Of My Life: There are so many reasons to love a partner, but saying goodbye is tough. Losing someone you love to death, divorce or breakups is heartbreaking and sad. Thinking back on the memories can make you smile, but at the same time it brings back the pain and memories of all those moments spent with them.
A Goodbye Letter To The Love Of My Life
Dear Love of My Life,
I’m writing this letter to let you know that I will always love you. I also wanted to let you know that I’m leaving this place. I can’t live here anymore. It’s not safe for me or my family. You see, I have a condition called depression and it takes over my life sometimes. And the only way for me to get better is to get away from all of this pain, anger and sadness that I feel every day when I wake up.
I’m sorry that things had to end this way but it was inevitable. There was no way we could’ve stayed together because our lives were just too different; there were too many obstacles in our way. But one thing is certain: we will always be friends and nothing will ever change that fact!
Dear love of my life,
I’m writing this letter to you on the day of our breakup. I know that by now you’ve read the texts I sent and heard about how I broke up with you through a mutual friend. But I want to explain myself to you one last time before we go our separate ways.
The truth is, I really do love you. You might not believe me right now, but it’s true. You are so amazing in so many ways and I can’t imagine my life without you in it. You make me laugh every day, even when times get tough, and your smile has been the only thing keeping me going for months now. You are an angel from heaven sent down just for me, and it kills me knowing that we’re going to be apart for good.
But please don’t think that means there was nothing wrong with us as a couple or that breaking up was an easy decision for me. There were so many things about our relationship that were wonderful and perfect, but there were also things about it that made me feel like maybe we weren’t meant to be together forever after all. And when those things became more important than what we had together, I had no other choice than to end the relationship.
It’s been a long time since we first met. I was just a boy, and you were just a girl. You made me laugh and feel like I could do anything. You showed me what it meant to be loved.
You gave me so much, but you also took so much from me in return. You took my youth and my innocence; you took my dreams and my hopes; you took my self-worth and my pride; you took my hope for the future and all I wanted from life. And then one day, you left me with nothing but broken dreams and shattered expectations.
I tried to make things work between us for as long as possible, but it was never enough for either of us in the end. It wasn’t supposed to be this way; we were supposed to be happy together forever! For many years I believed that no matter what happened between us, we would always be together because that was what fate had planned for us. But then fate decided otherwise when it came down to it. And now here we are… A goodbye letter after all those years together.
Hi, darling. I know it’s been a long time since we last spoke, but there are some things I need to tell you before I leave.
I’m sorry for everything. For the way I treated you, for the ways I hurt you and made you feel unloved. I know it was never intentional, but that doesn’t excuse my actions or make them less wrong.
I’m sorry for putting so much pressure on our relationship, for wanting more than we could give each other at the time. I’m sorry that I was so desperate to have your love that I couldn’t appreciate what we did have together until it was too late.
I’m sorry for being selfish and not thinking about what would happen to us after graduation when we started dating in high school. We were both too young to be making such big decisions about our futures; it wasn’t fair to either of us that one of us ended up moving away while the other stayed behind. But again, this wasn’t intentional — we just didn’t think about how things would change once college started or how much harder distance would make things between us as individuals rather than as a couple.
I guess what I’m saying is that there are so many things that’s wrong with our relationship now and it’s best we say our goodbyes.
Dear love of my life,
I can’t believe we’ve reached this point. You’re leaving me and I have no choice but to let you go.
I never thought it would come to this. But you see, time has done something to us and I think it’s been too long since we last saw each other. We used to be best friends and now we are strangers living in the same house. Every day is like a test of my patience; every night is a reminder that we are miles apart from each other.
You were once the most important thing in my life and now you are just another person who lives here with me just like anyone else. That’s how it feels without you here, like nothing has changed at all except for me missing you more than ever before.
I know this might seem weird coming from me but I really want things to go back to how they were before – when all I had was you and our little world where nothing else mattered except for us being together 24/7! The only time I felt complete was when we were together and everything else seemed unimportant compared to what we had between us!
I guess it’s too late now.
It has been a long time since I have written a letter to you. Our story started in the fall of 2014, when we met in our first class of college together. We quickly became friends, despite your relentless teasing and my inability to take a joke. It was the first time I felt like I could be myself around someone else—someone who wouldn’t judge me for how many times I cried during movies, how often I wanted to curl up on the couch with a bowl of ice cream and Netflix, or how much I wanted to travel just so that I could eat in other countries.
I am writing this letter because I am leaving you tonight. And while it’s hard for me to say goodbye, it’s even harder knowing that we won’t be together anymore.
I want you to know that I will always love you and remember the good times we had together: when we took road trips to Big Sur just because; when we went camping at Point Reyes; when we got matching tattoos; when we went camping with our families in New Mexico; when we drove from California to New York together; and when you helped me move into my new apartment after graduating from college (and made me swear never again).
I’m sorry that things didn’t work out between us.
I’m writing this letter to you because I want to say goodbye. It’s not easy for me, but at the same time it’s a relief to finally let go and move on with my life. I’ve made mistakes along the way and I know that you are hurting right now, but I hope that someday you’ll be able to forgive me.
It started out as a simple crush and infatuation with someone who was so different from me. I thought that maybe you could make everything better, that maybe we could be happy together forever if only we tried hard enough.
I realized later that it wasn’t going to work out between us because of our differences in personality, but I didn’t want to admit defeat until I knew for sure whether or not there was any hope left for us. Of course, there wasn’t or rather there shouldn’t have been, because it wouldn’t have worked out between us no matter how hard we tried.
Instead of being honest about our feelings and telling each other how we felt about each other from the beginning, we pushed them aside and pretended like everything was okay between us when it wasn’t even close to being okay at all!
I know that you haven’t been the best to me. I know that you’ve hurt me, but I’ve forgiven you. In fact, I’ve forgiven you so many times that it’s become a routine. It’s become a part of my life and it feels like home.
But this time, I can’t forgive you. This time is different.
I can’t do this anymore. I can’t keep on forgiving you for every wrong thing that you do. It’s not fair to either of us and it’s not good for our relationship.
I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t deserve my forgiveness anymore because they don’t value it as much as they should.
Dear love of my life,
It’s hard to believe that I will never see you again. Even though I know it’s true, it still hurts so much.
I remember the first time we met. It was at a party and everyone had left except for you and me. We talked until dawn on that cold winter night in New York City, and it felt like we’d known each other forever. At least, that’s how it seemed to me.
From then on, we were inseparable or so I thought.
You were always there for me when I needed someone to talk to or someone to take care of me when I was feeling down about something. You always cared about what happened in my life and wanted me to be happy. And whenever something went wrong between us, you always apologized and tried your best not to hurt me again. You were always there with open arms whenever I needed you most, even if it meant having to wait for weeks at a time before we could see each other again because of distance or schedules or whatever else was getting in the way at the time. You always told me how much you loved me. Everything has changed now, and I think it’s best we said our goodbyes because nothing is working anymore.
I’m writing this letter to you because I have something important to tell you. It’s time for me to say goodbye.
I know that you might be surprised by this decision but please understand that it wasn’t made lightly. I’ve been thinking about it for a while now and I feel like this is the right thing to do.
I don’t know how much time has passed or if we even have an exact number of days left together, but I want you to know that the time we spent together was amazing. You were everything I ever wanted and more than I could have imagined in a partner. You made me feel loved and cherished from day one and every day after that until today; which makes this decision even harder for me.
I wish things could be different but they can’t. It seems like no matter what either of us tries or how hard we try to make things work out between us, it always ends up the same way: with us parting ways at some point or another due to incompatibilities in our personalities or our lives just not aligning anymore for whatever reason (or maybe both).
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