A Letter To The Man I Want To Spend My Life With

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A Letter To The Man I Want To Spend My Life With

Dear Man I Want to Spend My Life With,

I’m writing this letter because this is the only way we can communicate. You may not know me and I may not know you, but I felt like it was time for us to meet. You see, we’ve been together for a while now. You’ve come into my life at just the right time and I’m sure there will be challenges ahead, but together we’ll figure it out.

You have no idea how long I’ve been waiting for you to come into my life. And when you did, it happened in a very unexpected way. It’s funny how fate works, but sometimes it takes us a while to realize that fate has been working in our favor all along.

Dear _____,

You are the man I want to spend my life with.

Before I met you, I was afraid of love. I was afraid of risking my heart. I was afraid of putting myself out there for someone else and having them reject me or hurt me.

I was afraid that if I found the one person who could make me truly happy, who could help me understand what true love was, that they would leave me and break my heart. I thought that it would be better to be alone than to risk getting hurt by opening up and being vulnerable with another human being.

But then I met you. You were open and honest from the start, even when it scared you to do so. You let yourself experience feelings that most people never allow themselves to feel  feelings like joy and excitement and belonging  because those were things that you wanted more than anything else in life: happiness and love and connection with other people who care about you enough to want the best for you above all else.

Dear [name],

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the kind of man I want to spend the rest of my life with.

And you know what? You’re pretty much exactly what I imagined.

You’re funny and kind, smart and thoughtful, and you make me laugh like no one else can. You’re an amazing father to our kids and an amazing partner to me. You love me for who I am, both my faults and my strengths, and that makes me feel safe enough to be myself with you. And it makes me want to be even better in return.

You bring out the best in me, not by telling me how I should be but by showing me how great it feels to be loved for exactly who I am.

I’m so lucky that God brought us together because now every day is full of surprises! Because we get to share them together as a family (and yes, there will be more kids).

Dear,

I know this isn’t a typical greeting but it is the only one I can think of right now. It’s been a long time since we have seen each other, but you are still so fresh in my mind. You have been since the first day we met.

When I look at you, I see someone who is kind and compassionate, loving and caring. Someone who has always been there for me when I needed them most. You have stood by me through thick and thin and I can’t thank you enough for that.

You are everything that I could ever want in a man. There is no doubt in my mind that if given the chance to spend my life with you, I would do so without question or hesitation.

I know what some people will say about this letter; they will say it sounds like she is writing her wedding vows or she must be crazy but they don’t know you like I do,  they don’t see how wonderful you are or how much joy you bring into my life every single day!

Dear Man I Want To Spend My Life With,

You are the man I want to spend my life with. It’s taken me a while to realize this, but once I did, it was like a light bulb turning on in my head. I feel like I am finally on the right path for myself and for us.

It’s been hard for me to accept that you are the one for me. I’ve been scared to commit because of past relationships and fear of what might happen if we break up. But I know now that nothing is worth more than your love and support in my life.

I have no doubt that your love will last forever (or at least as long as we both shall live). You’re kind and compassionate, smart, funny and strong-willed all things that are important to me in a partner.

Dear Man I Want To Spend My Life With,

I love you. I love everything about you and I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you. You’ve become my best friend, the person who makes me laugh, and the person who makes me smile when everything else seems impossible.

I am so thankful that we found each other because without you? I wouldn’t have been able to deal with all of the crazy stuff that’s happened in my life recently. Every time something went wrong, or when things got tough, you were there for me. You’re so supportive and loving and I’m so thankful for that.

You are literally one of the most amazing people that I’ve ever met in my entire life and I cannot imagine spending any more time without you by my side. From the moment we first met, I knew that we would be great together but this far exceeded anything that I could have ever imagined for us! You make me feel like a million dollars every single day by just being yourself and that’s something that nobody else has ever done before!

Dear Man,

I want to spend the rest of my life with you. I am certain about this. You are amazing, and I have never met anyone like you before. You are not only handsome, but also kind and compassionate. You are thoughtful, considerate, and patient. You love me unconditionally, even when I am being difficult or irritating (which is quite often). You make me laugh every day and fill me with joy just by being in the same room as me. I am so lucky to have found someone like you!

You are also very good at laundry and cleaning up after dinner parties. I love that about you!

I know we will be happy together forever because I love you so much!

Dear (insert name here),

I don’t know if you’re reading this letter, but if you are, I wanted to take the time to tell you how much I appreciate the way you make me feel. And I wanted you to know you are the man I want to spend my life with. You have made me feel like the luckiest girl in the world.

You make me feel beautiful not just on the outside but on the inside as well. You make me feel loved and cherished, like no one else could ever make me feel or could ever love me quite as much as you do. You make me feel like we belong together and that we were meant to be together for eternity.

I don’t think about what my life would be like without you anymore because it’s hard for me to even imagine my life without you in it. You are everything I never knew I needed until I met you, and now that I have found you, there is no turning back because our lives have become intertwined into one inseparable being.

You complete me in ways nobody else has been able to before; nobody else could ever compare to what our relationship has become. There is nothing more important in this world than our relationship because it means everything to us both, it’s what keeps us going each day in spite of all odds.

Dear [name],

I know that we don’t know each other very well yet, but it’s already clear to me that you’re the one for me. You’re kind, you’re thoughtful and you always have my best interests at heart. You’ve never once judged me for my past and I’m so grateful for that.

You inspire me to be a better person every day.

I want to spend my life with someone who will love me unconditionally, who will never leave my side no matter what happens. Someone who will make me laugh everyday, even when times get tough. Someone who will hold my hand when things get hard. Someone who will always be there for me through thick and thin. You are all those things, [The Man I Want To Spend My Life With.

I see how much joy having a family has brought into your life and I want that too! We could be so happy together, it would be like we were meant to be together from the very beginning.

Dear the man I want to spend my life with,

I know that we have only known each other for a short amount of time, but I feel like we’ve been friends forever. You’ve been there through all my ups and downs, and you’ve never once run away from me when things got tough. You’ve never given up on me, even when I was at my worst.

I don’t think I’m being too honest when I say that you are one of the most important people in my life right now. You mean so much to me, and sometimes it’s hard for me to put into words exactly how much you mean to me. But I hope that by writing this letter to you today, I can show you just how much you mean to me.

You’re one of the best friends anyone could ever ask for, someone who will listen when they need it most, someone who will give them advice when they’re feeling lost, someone who will make them laugh when they feel like crying, someone who will be there no matter what happens between us.

Dear (name),

I am writing this letter from my heart. I am not sure if you are the one for me, but I want to give it a try. You are very special to me, and I hope that we will be together soon. I know that love can happen at first sight, and it is what happened to us when we met at the party last week. You have stolen my heart and my soul with your deep eyes and warm smile.

I don’t think you know how much you mean to me. You are everything in my life now: my lover, my friend and my soul mate. I never thought that would happen so quickly! But now I know that this feeling is real, and we must do something about it as soon as possible.

I know we still need some time to get used to each other’s habits and preferences in life; however, I am sure that our relationship will go far beyond what either of us ever expected it would be like!

Dear (insert his name here),

I am writing this letter to you because I have something important to tell you. I have been wanting to tell you for such a long time, but I don’t think my heart is ready yet. The day has finally come though, and all I can say is, Thank God.

I want to tell you that I love you. I want to tell you that the way you smile makes me happy and giggly inside. I want to tell you that when we touch each other, it feels like magic. But most of all, I want to tell you that I am ready to be in a relationship with you because you are the man I want to spend my life with.

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