Thank you for cheating on me letter is a common one. This kind of letter is sent by the partner who has discovered that he or she has been cheated on. This may have been because of infidelity, emotional and physical abuse, lies and secrets, etc. Thank you for cheating on me letter is written out of pain and anger. But, it can also be written for closure. You can get the desired closure by sending such letter to a former lover.
Thank you for cheating on me letter
Dear [hubby’s name],
I know that it wasn’t your intention to hurt me, but I’m glad that this happened because it has made me realize what a terrible husband you are.
I appreciate the fact that you have always been supportive of my career and encouraged me to pursue my dreams. However, I never realized that this meant that you would be unfaithful and make me feel like a fool.
You might think this is harsh but it’s not. It’s reality and it’s time for us both to face up to it.
You’ve been lying to me for years about where you go at night, looking at other women online, flirting with them on Facebook, talking to them on the phone and even going out with some of them without telling me where you were going or when you’d be back home again!
I’ve always taken your word for everything because I trusted you so much, but now I realize that was just plain stupid of me.
Dear,
I want to thank you for cheating on me. I know that your choice was based on many reasons, but I am grateful that you did it.
In the past, I always thought that cheating was the worst thing that could happen to a couple. It meant that we didn’t have a good relationship and our love was not strong enough to withstand such problems. However, after our breakup and your betrayal, I realized how wrong I was.
You see, when you cheated on me, it hurt me deeply because it showed me how much you don’t care about us as a couple. Even though we were facing many difficulties, you still had an affair with another woman without thinking about how this would affect me or other people involved in our relationship. It made me realize that our relationship wasn’t worth saving because your feelings for me weren’t strong enough or deep enough to withstand any difficulties in life.
Dear X,
I just wanted to thank you for cheating on me. I know that sounds strange, but it’s true.
I know this might sound crazy, but when we first got together, I didn’t feel like I was much of a catch. You said all the right things, but even then I knew that you were lying to me.
You made me feel beautiful and wanted, which is something I never felt in my life before you came along.
I thought about leaving our relationship because of what had happened with your ex-wife, but you convinced me that you were different from her and that she was just a horrible person who would never change her ways.
I believed you when you told me that we were going to get married and raise children together one day; however at the same time I knew deep down inside that nothing would ever change between us because of your past experiences with other women in relationships.
At least not until we were married or engaged, right? Wrong! You cheated on me before we even got engaged.
Dear [my name],
I am writing to thank you for cheating on me. Thank you for putting my trust in question and making me question my decisions. Thank you for letting me know that I am not good enough for you and that I will never be good enough.
Thank you for making me feel like a fool, like an idiot, like someone who is not good enough to be with you. Thank you for making me feel like I have no worth, no value and no self-respect.
Thank you for showing me what kind of person you really are; someone who does not care about anyone but themselves. Thank you for making me realize that I deserve better than this and that there are plenty of other people out there who would treat me with respect and dignity and love me for who I am.
