If your daughter is intending to get married, you can send a letter to your future son in law to show your approval, you can get samples of such letters below.
Letter To My Future Son In Law
Dear future son-in-law,
I hope you are having a great time with my daughter. I know that you two are going through a lot of changes in your lives right now, but they will be worth it. I am so happy to have you as part of our family, and I look forward to seeing you on holidays and birthdays.
I hope that this note finds its way into your hands before the wedding day. If not, then don’t worry about it too much there’s always next year.
Sincerely,
Dear [son in law’s name],
We’re so excited to have you as a son-in-law! We know that you and our daughter are going to have such a wonderful life together, and we can’t wait to see what the future holds for you both. We just wanted to take a moment to write this letter so that we can tell you how much we love you and how happy we are about the engagement.
We know that the two of you will have lots of adventures together, and we look forward to hearing all about them when you come home from your travels. We also know that you’ll be a great husband who treats her well and supports her dreams, so please remember that she deserves nothing less than your best efforts at all times.
Dear [son in law],
I’m so glad you’re marrying my daughter, It’s been a long time coming, and I know she’s been waiting to find the right person for a long time. You are that person.
We’ve been through a lot together as a family. There have been times when we didn’t always see eye to eye (and sometimes we still don’t) but I know that you will be there for my daughter in good times and bad. That’s what really matters, right?
I hope you and my daughter have a long and happy life together. And, if at any point along the way, you need me to give you some advice or guidance, just let me know.
Hi [son-in-law],
I’m writing to you to tell you how much I love and care for you. You are the kindest and most generous person I have ever known, and I am so proud to have you as my son-in-law. My daughter is lucky to have found someone like you, who will always be there for her no matter what. You are an incredible father, husband, brother, son, and friend.
I hope that over the years we can continue to build our relationship together—you’re already a part of our family!
Thanks for being such a great guy.
Dear [future son in law],
You are a wonderful man, and I am so excited to have you as my son-in-law. You are kind, thoughtful, and compassionate, all of which are qualities that I admire in my future daughters’ husbands. You also make me laugh. When we first met at [location], I knew that we would be friends for life.
I know that this letter will be read by many people over the years, but you should know that it is your kindness and goodness that makes me proudest to call you family.
Dear [future son-in-law name],
I wanted to send you a letter to tell you how happy I am that you and my daughter are getting married. I know that the two of you are a perfect match, and I can’t wait to see what the future holds for both of you.
I hope this letter finds you well and enjoying your time off before the wedding. It’s been wonderful spending time with my daughter and now her fiancé but it does make me nervous thinking about all of the logistics involved with planning for a wedding. I just want to make sure that as many things go smoothly as possible on the big day.
I know that when we first met, we didn’t get along very well at first. But then again, neither did my daughter, Thank goodness she had enough sense in her head to realize what a great guy you were and how much fun it would be to spend time with you.
Dear [son-in-law name],
I want to take this opportunity to welcome you into our family and thank you for choosing my daughter as your future wife. We love her very much and we know that she is in good hands with you. You are an amazing man who will make an incredible husband and father. She is lucky to have you in her life, and we look forward to welcoming you into ours.
We hope that you enjoy the wedding as much as we are sure it will be perfect! Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you before then.
With love,
Dear [son-in-law name],
I know it’s not easy to be a son-in-law. I mean, you’re not just marrying my daughter, you’re marrying into the family. And that means you’ll be part of a team, and part of the family business, which is me and my wife.
It also means that you’ll be taking on some of our habits. For instance, we eat popcorn at least once a day. We have to have popcorn every night before bed. We also like to watch movies every night as well (we watch Netflix).
You’ll also have to get used to living in the same house as us, if we decide to live in separate houses, then it will be awkward because we will have to drive back and forth between each other’s houses every day (which is annoying).
And let me tell you what else I mean by “living in the same house as us.” When we say “living in the same house” what we really mean is that our kids will be hanging out with your kids all the time and vice versa, So if your kid does something bad or embarrassing (like if they farted), then my kid will be there too and vice versa.
Dear [future son-in-law],
I hope this letter finds you well and that you are enjoying your stay in [city]. I’m so happy to hear that you’ve been able to find a job and become settled in your new home. It sounds like an exciting time for you, and I look forward to meeting you soon.
I wanted to take this opportunity to let you know what a special person my daughter is, and why she would make an excellent wife for someone like you. My daughter is kind, caring, and thoughtful—she always has been. She is a wonderful listener and has always had a knack for making people feel comfortable around her. She’s also intelligent; she graduated with honors from [university] with a degree in [field]. She loves music, art, movies, and books; she has an amazing sense of humor; she’s optimistic about life; and she has such a big heart! She would make any man lucky enough to marry her very happy indeed.
So if there’s anything that we can do or any questions that need answering before the wedding day arrives (which will be soon), please don’t hesitate to reach out. We look forward to meeting you soon.
Dear future son-in-law,
I know you and my daughter have been dating for a while now, but I just wanted to let you know how happy we are to have you in our lives. My daughter is an amazing person, and I can’t think of anyone else I’d rather see her with than someone as kind and thoughtful as you. You’ve become so important to us that it’s hard to imagine what life would be like without you and that’s something we can’t wait to find out.
We know that you’ll love spending time with us, but if there’s anything we can do to make things easier on your relationship with our daughter, please don’t hesitate to ask. Whatever it is, please know that we’re here for you and want nothing more than for this family to grow together and I’m sure your parents feel the same way! We all look forward to welcoming them into our family soon.
Love always,
Dear [son in law],
I am so excited to be welcoming you into the family. I can’t wait to see what kind of person you turn out to be, and I want to make sure that you know that no matter what, I love you.
I know that this is a big change for you and your family, but it’s also a big change for us. We’re going to have to get used to having another person in our home, and we may need some time to adjust, too! I’m sure we’ll have lots of laughs as we figure out how best to live together, but I do hope that we can all work together as a team and make each other feel loved and heard.
My husband is very excited about starting his new job at [company name], and he’s been talking about everything he wants us all to do together as we get settled into this new chapter of our lives. He knows how much you mean to him already, but he wants me—and all of us to make sure that nothing ever comes between us. So even though we are moving forward together, please know that if there ever comes a day when things go wrong between us or any member of our family (including yourself), please let us know.
Dear [son in law name]:
I’m writing to thank you for allowing me to be a part of your family. I know it was a difficult decision for you and your family, but I’m so glad that you made it.
You have been such a wonderful addition to our family, and we are honored to have you join us. You are such a kind and caring person, and I know that [daughter name] is lucky to have someone like you by her side.
I can’t wait to see what the future holds for all of us.
Dear [son in law’s name],
I wanted to write you a letter to tell you how proud I am of you, and how excited I am to see what the future holds for you.
You’ve always been a thoughtful, kind person, and I’m confident that those qualities will help you be an amazing husband to my daughter. You’ll be the kind of man who treats her with respect, who listens to her needs and desires, and who makes her feel safe and understood. That’s a rare quality in a partner and it’s one that she deserves.
But this isn’t just about my daughter. It’s about all of us. You’re going to be such an incredible father someday, the kind of dad that your kids are going to look up to, because they know how much you love them. The way you treat their mom will have an impact on them too and I know they’ll grow up knowing what it means to be loved unconditionally by someone who is always there for them no matter what happens.
That’s why I’m so happy that my daughter has found someone like you, someone who knows how important family is, and someone who wants nothing more than to make sure his own family is taken care of first before anything else.
I’m so excited to welcome you into the family. I know that you and [daughter’s name] are going to have a wonderful life together, and I can’t wait to see what the future holds for you two.
I hope this letter finds you well and happy. I’m sure you’re busy planning the wedding and all of the details that come with it. But if there’s ever anything at all that I can do to help out, please don’t hesitate to ask, the more help we have, the better off everyone will be.
My best wishes for a happy future together with [daughter’s name].
Love, Mom
Also See: Letter To The Man Who Will Marry My Daughter
