Letter To The Man Who Will Marry My Daughter

As a father to a beautiful daughter, you can send a letter to your daughter’s future husband telling him you approve of the relationship and any thing you wish to tell him, you can get  samples  of sure letters below.

Letter To The Man Who Will Marry My Daughter

Dear future husband of my daughter,

I hope you are doing well. My daughter is doing very well. She has been working hard and studying in school. She has an internship at [company name]. I am very proud of her.

I want to tell you about myself. I am a very caring person who loves to be loved in return. I work hard to provide for our family and would like to find someone who will share my values and love our child as much as we do. The most important thing to me is family, so I would like for us to have a very close relationship with each other and our children.

My daughter told me that she thinks you are nice and funny, but she isn’t sure if you are serious about her yet because she hasn’t heard from you since your last letter (she asked me not to read it). As I said earlier, we love having visitors come over and visit us here at home whenever they want; it’s always nice when people want to spend time with us.

Dear [person’s name],

Congratulations! You’ve been selected as a potential husband for my daughter. We are excited to have you on this journey with us, and we’re sure that given the chance you’ll be the perfect partner for our little girl.

We want to make sure that this relationship is a good fit, which is why we’re asking you to fill out the questionnaire below. Please answer these questions honestly and as best as you can. We will use your responses in our decision-making process (and we will also give you an opportunity to ask us questions). If at any point during this process we feel like your answers are not compatible with ours or don’t align with our expectations, we’ll let you know right away so that we can both make an informed decision about whether or not this marriage will work out.

Please take some time to think through each question carefully before answering, and feel free to email us back if you need more time or clarification on anything. We look forward to hearing from you.

Dear [name],

I’m writing to welcome you to the family. I hope you’re having a great time getting to know [daughter’s name], and that she’s enjoying getting to know you!

We are so thrilled for this new chapter in our lives, and we hope that no matter what happens, we’ll always be able to count on each other. As you know, my husband and I have been together for almost 20 years now and it hasn’t always been easy, but we’ve learned how to work through our differences and come out stronger than ever.

We both want the best for [daughter’s name] and want her to be happy with her choice of partner for life. That being said, we don’t think that means making any compromises about what kind of person she should marry. Your job isn’t just going to be taking care of [daughter’s name]; it’s also going to be helping her live up to her full potential as an individual who can make decisions for herself without feeling pressured by anyone else’s expectations or desires (including your own).

Dear [man who will marry my daughter]:

I’m so thrilled to have you as a potential suitor for my daughter, [daughter’s name]. I’ve heard good things about you from mutual friends and family, and I can’t wait to get to know you better.

My daughter is an incredible person, and I really think she’d be lucky to have someone like you in her life. She’s talented, hard-working, and has a heart of gold, all qualities that make her a wonderful partner. But what makes her even more special is her sense of humor. She has this way of making everyone around her feel comfortable, no matter what the situation is or how stressful it gets. She can always put a smile on your face when you’re feeling down.

What do you think? Do you think she’d be a good match for you? If so, let me know! We live in [city], but we’d be happy to meet up with you wherever works best for both of us (and our schedules).

Hi,

I’m writing to you because my daughter is about to be married, and she’s asked me to reach out to you with this message: “Dad, please tell the man who will marry me that I love him.”

I know that sounds strange coming from a father, but this is a different kind of situation. You see, I’ve been married for over 20 years now, and I’ve never heard my wife say those words. Not once. If you’re like me, then hearing someone say they love you has become such a rare occurrence that it’s easy to take it for granted until it’s gone. And then it’s too late.

That’s why I’m writing this letter: so that you don’t have to wait until it’s too late for your own daughter or son to tell them how much they mean to them. I want them to know how much their words mean because those words are the most important ones in the world: “I love you.”

So please, from one dad to another,  tell your kids that they’re loved today.

Dear [name],

Welcome to the family,  I’m so happy to meet you and welcome you into the fold. I know my daughter has been looking forward to this day for a long time, and I hope that you feel as excited as she does about starting your lives together.

I want to let you know that I am here for you if you ever need anything. Whether it be advice on how to make her laugh or just a shoulder to cry on, I am ready and willing to help in any way that I can. If there is any way I can support your relationship with [daughter’s name], please let me know. It would mean a lot.

Best wishes,

Dad

Dear Future Husband,

My daughter is a beautiful, intelligent, and amazing woman. I am so happy that she has found you to be her partner in life. You are clearly a wonderful person to have captured her heart.

I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for your kind words and support of my daughter. It means so much to me that someone like you would choose her as your life partner.

Now that you have read this letter, I hope that you will continue to love my daughter as much as I do. She deserves only the best and most kind-hearted man in the world; please make sure that there are no limits on how much love and affection you show her every day. You are truly blessed by having such an amazing woman in your life, and I am very happy for both of you.

Dear [name],

I’m writing to you because I want you to know how much it means to me that you’ll be marrying my daughter, [daughter’s name]. She is one of the most incredible people I’ve ever met and I hope that you can see that for yourself. She’s kind and generous, smart and thoughtful, and she has such a big heart. She’s also beautiful inside and out. When I look at her, I see all the good things in the world reflected back at me.

I know that you’ll love each other deeply, but even if you didn’t, I would still support your marriage because I believe in love so much. But knowing that you’ll have each other makes it even more special for me than if she were marrying someone else. Please take care of her always, she needs someone who will be there for her no matter what happens.

Dear Mr. [name],

I’m writing to you because my daughter [daughter’s name] has expressed her desire to marry you. I know that she’s been seeing you for a while now, and I think it’s time we came together as a family to discuss this important decision.

I’m writing to you first because I want to make sure there are no mistakes in our communication. You see, my daughter is very smart, but she can also be stubborn and impulsive so if I write something here that isn’t true, please let me know so we can clear up any confusion before we meet.

As you know, my husband and I are getting older and we’re not able to work as much as we used to (he has some health issues). We were hoping that our daughter would help us out around the house with chores so that we could focus more on taking care of each other but instead she spends all her time with you!  She says she wants to marry you, but honestly it feels like she’s just using me and my husband as an excuse not to do anything around here anymore! She needs someone who will help us out more than just once in a while.

Dear Mr. Smith,

I’m writing to you to let you know that I’m thrilled to let you know that my daughter will soon be joining your family.

She is a kind and loving young lady who I am sure will be a great addition to your household. She loves music and singing, as well as reading and cooking. In fact, the first meal she made for me was spaghetti with meatballs and garlic bread, which was delicious.

She has a good sense of humor and can always make me laugh when I’m feeling down. She also enjoys spending time with her friends and family, whether that’s going out for dinner or sitting around a bonfire on the beach at nightfall.

She is always willing to lend a helping hand whenever someone needs it—whether it’s a stranger in need or a friend who needs advice about their boyfriend/girlfriend situation! She’s very open-minded and accepting of other people’s opinions (even if they differ from her own), which is something I think will serve her well in life no matter where she goes next or what she decides to do with herself after high school graduation next year.

Dear [name],

I wanted to write you a letter to let you know how much I appreciate the way you’ve been treating my daughter. She’s an amazing woman, and I know that she could have picked anyone to be her partner in life, but I’m so glad she chose you.

I feel like there are some things that have come up recently that need to be addressed between us before we get too far along the road. Things that might make it difficult for me to accept your proposal if they weren’t handled in a way that works for everyone involved. That’s why I wanted to take the time now to talk about them, because I want us all to be on the same page going forward.

First of all, let me say that I’m aware of your financial situation and am not asking you for any money beyond what is already agreed upon with my daughter in terms of her dowry. However, I do want you to understand how much it means to me if you could start saving up money so that when we get married which will hopefully happen soon we can buy our own house instead of living with my wife and me (or even worse, renting!). It would mean so much more than just having space; it would show me.

Dear [name],

I am writing to you because I have decided that you are the right person to marry my beautiful daughter. I know that she is young, but she has her whole life ahead of her. I do not want to see her grow old alone. She needs someone who will love her unconditionally and treat her well.

You seem like a good man, so I hope that this letter finds you well and happy. If you are interested in marrying my daughter then please let me know.

Check out: Thank You Letter To My Son In Law

Dear Man Who Will Marry My Daughter,

First of all, I want to thank you for taking the time to read this letter. I know it’s a little out of the ordinary and unconventional but I just wanted to make sure you knew what kind of person my daughter is.

She has been through so much in her life and she has come out stronger than ever. She’s one of those people that when they fall down, they get right back up again. She is so strong and determined and she will do anything to keep her family happy.

I know that she has had a lot of bad relationships in the past but I want her to be with someone who will treat her like gold and always appreciate everything she does for them.

She deserves to be loved by someone who will treat her like an equal because she loves giving as much as receiving! She loves making others happy and would do anything for them (even if it means sacrificing herself) because she knows how important family is!

She loves animals too! She is currently volunteering at an animal shelter here in town and she spends every weekend there taking care of all of them! She even takes some home with her sometimes because they need extra love and care!

Dear Man Who Will Marry My Daughter,

I’ve heard a lot about you. I know you’re tall and handsome and have a great job. I know you’re smart and kind and athletic. You’re a wonderful father and son, and you come from a good family with strong values. My daughter loves you very much, and she thinks you’re the best thing that’s ever happened to her.

I’m sure there are some things about you that I don’t know yet, but that doesn’t matter because we’ve all got our secrets. And even if there were things about you that I didn’t like, it wouldn’t matter because my daughter has chosen this path for herself, and she won’t let me interfere with her life choices anymore than she would let me tell her who to vote for or what clothes to wear or what music she should listen to or how much money she should make or where she should live or whom she should marry (or not marry).

So here’s what we’re going to do: You’re going to marry my daughter and make her happy for the rest of her life (and maybe even longer), because if someone as wonderful as my daughter can find someone like you then there must be hope for all!

Dear Man,

I’m writing this letter to tell you how much I love my daughter and how much she means to me. I love her so much that I can’t imagine her growing up and moving out of my house. She is my baby girl and she always will be.

She’s a wonderful young lady who has worked hard to get where she is today. She graduated from college with honors, has a great job and is about to start her career in medicine. She will make an excellent doctor because she’s a caring person with a passion for helping others.

She has a big heart and would do anything for anyone who needs it. She’s a people pleaser and always trying to make others happy even if it means putting herself last on the list of priorities at times. This trait is one of the many things that makes her such an amazing person but it also makes her vulnerable at times too because sometimes people take advantage of that quality about her.

That’s why when it comes time for marriage, I want the man who marries my daughter to understand that he needs to put his wife first above everything else in his life including work or any other personal goals he may have set aside for himself until he got married or settled down with someone special in his life.

Dear Future Son-In-Law,

It’s been a while since you first came into our lives. You’ve been kind enough to accept my daughter’s invitation to her upcoming wedding and we are very grateful for that.

I hope this letter finds you well. I just wanted to take a moment and thank you for being so open-minded about the fact that my daughter has chosen to marry another woman. It took me awhile to get used to it, but now that I have, I’m happy for them both.

I know it must be hard for you because this is such a new thing for most people, but if there’s one thing I’ve learned over the years, it’s not to judge others based on their choices in life or who they decide to love. You should never try and force someone into doing things your way just because you think it would be better for them, especially if they’re happy doing things another way! That being said, if my daughter ever decides she wants kids someday (and again, I don’t know if this will ever happen), we will support her 100%.

As far as what kind of person I want my daughter marrying goes: someone who loves her unconditionally, respects her and has the fear of God.

Dear Future Husband,

 I have some advice for you, Please don’t beat my daughter. She is a wonderful person who deserves someone who will love her unconditionally. Do not hurt her like my ex-husband hurt me. I am sure that despite what she says, she wants to be happy, and she wants to be loved.

Listen to her when she cries and hold her hand when she feels insecure about herself. Make her feel like the most beautiful woman in the world even if you are not sure of how to get there. Just try your best and never stop trying.

Dear Man Who Will Marry My Daughter,

My daughter is a wonderful young woman. I know you will be an excellent husband for her. The two of you are cut from the same cloth; you both have a strong work ethic and a love for family.

I want to tell you how proud I am that my daughter has found such a great man like yourself. You are going to make her very happy and she will in turn make you happy as well. She’s been through so much already in life and I know she deserves nothing but the best from this point forward.

Dear Man Who Will Marry My Daughter,

My daughter is a great girl. She’s smart, she’s kind, she’s loving and she’s beautiful. She has a good head on her shoulders, and she knows how to use it. She has dreams that she hopes one day to accomplish. You see, these are not just any dreams; these are important dreams that will shape her future and the way she lives her life.

I know that you also have hopes and dreams for yourself as well as your future family. I hope that one day you will be able to share those hopes with my daughter so that you two can work together toward achieving them.

What I want for my daughter is for her to be happy in her life and with the man who will someday become her husband. I want for her to find someone who loves her for all of her wonderful qualities, who sees past her flaws and imperfections and into the heart of who she truly is, someone who appreciates all of the qualities that make up this amazing young woman I call my daughter.

Dear Man Who Will Marry My Daughter,

My daughter is the most wonderful person I know, and I cannot imagine a man who would be a better husband and father than you. She loves you deeply and has chosen to spend her life with you. That is not something she does lightly, so please take her seriously when she tells you that she wants to marry you.

She may be afraid of what will happen if she gets married. She might think that if she marries you, something bad will happen to one or both of you, or maybe she thinks that if she gets married then everything will change, even if it’s just that your relationship becomes more serious. This can scare people because they think they don’t know how to handle it when things change. But marriages are about learning how to handle change together, and your relationship is already changing because it’s becoming more serious. Don’t worry about this too much; everyone feels like this sometimes when their relationships become more serious or when they get married in general.

She might also be afraid that if she gets married then her parents won’t like it anymore and will stop giving her advice on how to live her life properly. This isn’t true.

Dear Sir,

I’m writing this letter to tell you that I love my daughter and I want to give her away in marriage to the best man on earth. I am sure you will be a great husband and I know that you will love my daughter like no one else can ever do. You are going to be the father of my grandchildren and I know they are going to be amazing just like their parents. Please take care of my daughter and make sure that she is always happy and healthy.

Because you are such an important person in our lives, I want to ask you not to hurt my daughter or make her cry too much. You should never treat her like she is less than anyone else in this world because she is so special and unique. She deserves everything good that life has got for her; so please don’t ever stop loving her or treating her right because she won’t love anyone else like you do!

Dear [Insert Name],

Congratulations! You’re the lucky man who gets to marry my daughter. I’m sure you’re wondering what kind of man she is, so let me tell you all about her.

[Insert a few lines about your daughter’s personality, hobbies, and interests.]

[Insert a few more lines about your daughter’s personality, hobbies, and interests.]

My daughter is an amazing woman. She will make any man proud to have her by his side for the rest of his life. And she’ll be proud to have you too! [Insert a few lines about why you think your daughter will make a great wife.]

I’m sure that together we’ll make some beautiful grandchildren one day! [Insert a few lines about how you think your son-in-law will treat his future grandchildren.]

We look forward to having you as part of our family soon!

Dear Future Son-In-Law,

I want to tell you how much I love my daughter. She is a wonderful person, and I know she will make an amazing wife for you. It’s been such a joy to watch her grow up these past few years, and I hope that our family will remain close after the wedding day.

I know you have a lot of decisions to make about your future. Do you want to live in the city or the country? How much money do you want to make? And most importantly, what type of person are you going to marry? Do you want someone who shares your interests or someone who has very different interests? I hope that my daughter can find someone who will support her dreams and help her achieve them!

I’m sure that over time, we will develop a strong bond with each other as we do with our own families. If there were two things that could make our relationship even stronger, they would be trust and respect. Trust means believing in one another no matter what obstacles we face together, while respect means showing appreciation for each other’s differences.