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Open Letter To My Husband – I Love You
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Open Letter To My Husband – I Love You
Dear [husband’s name],
I love you. I love how you always tell me I’m pretty, even when I’m wearing no makeup and my hair is a mess from morning yoga. I love how you make me laugh out loud, even when it’s at your own expense. I love how much you care about our family and making sure we’re happy and healthy. I love that you are always putting others before yourself, which is why we’re all so lucky to have you as our husband.
I love your kind heart, and the fact that other people see it too, the way they always come up to us at restaurants or on the street to say, “Thank you for being such a good husband.” You have such big dreams for yourself, but somehow they never get in the way of your ability to help others succeed too.
And most of all… I love that even though things have been hard lately, we’ve managed to stay optimistic about what comes next. We believe in ourselves and each other, even when it feels like there’s nothing left but doubt and fear. Thank you for being so strong through
this time; for believing in me even when it seemed like nothing would ever be okay again; for knowing that if we stick together through thick and thin.
Dear [husband’s name],
I love you. I know that this might sound like a strange thing to say, but I just wanted to make sure that everyone knew it. I know that you’re not a fan of being told how much you mean to me in front of other people, but I want everyone else to know how much you mean to me.
I remember the first time we met, it was at a party and you were wearing those big glasses and had your hair all slicked back with gel. You looked like such a dork! But then we started talking and I realized how funny and smart you are, and how kind, too. And now here we are married, It’s incredible to think about how far we’ve come together these past few years, and I’m so grateful for every single moment we’ve shared together.
I love spending time with you because you’re always ready with a joke or a smile when things get tough, which they do sometimes (especially when our kids wake up at 2 AM). But even though those times are hard, they don’t feel like they matter as much when they’re happening because all I have to do is look at your face and realize: “Yeah, this is what life is supposed to be.
Dear [husband name],
I love you. I love you so much that I can’t even begin to tell you how much.
I don’t know if there’s a way for me to ever show you how much I love you, but I’m going to try anyway. Even though you’re not here with me right now, I want to let you know that I’m thinking about you every second of every day.
I hope this letter finds you well and happy in whatever place you are now. If it doesn’t work out for us, if we don’t get back together again someday soon, then know that this letter is an apology from me for everything that happened between us before all of the things I did wrong, all of the things I didn’t do right. It’s also an apology for letting myself get so distracted by other people’s opinions and expectations that I forgot what was most important: our relationship.
I want nothing more than to be able to spend more time with you again to watch movies together and talk about how they made us feel; to go on walks together; to go camping in the summertime; and just generally be together as much as possible without any distractions keeping us apart.
Dear [husband name],
I love you. I know that’s hard to believe sometimes, especially when we’re arguing or when things are going wrong in our lives. But it’s true I love you.
I love you because of your loyalty and determination. I love how you stand by me no matter what happens, even when I’m being a jerk. I love how hard you work for our family, and how much pride you have in what we’ve built together.
I love the way your face lights up when you see me coming down the stairs in my slinky dress before we go out to dinner at our favorite restaurant. I love the way your eyes crinkle up when you laugh at one of my jokes (even if it isn’t funny).
Most importantly, though, I love that no matter what happens in this world or out of it, we always have each other to lean on.
Dear [husband name],
I love you. I really do. I’ve never been more sure of anything in my life than that I love you.
I know that it’s hard for you to believe that I still love you, after all these years of me being the one who works full-time and is gone all day long. And then when I get home, it seems like every time we try to talk about something important, we just end up fighting instead of talking.
But it’s true: even though we fight a lot, and even though sometimes it seems like we won’t ever stop fighting, deep down inside I love you more than anything else in the world—and that means that no matter what happens between us, no matter how much pain or anger or confusion gets thrown at our relationship by other people or by circumstances beyond our control, nothing will ever stop me from loving you with all my heart.
Dear [husband name],
I love you. I’ve loved you since the moment I met you and I’ll love you until the day I die. You’re my best friend, my partner in crime, my other half. You’re the person that makes me feel like everything is going to be okay, even when it’s not. You are my home and I am so grateful for having you in my life.
I know that it’s not always easy being married to someone who has bipolar disorder, but all of those challenges are worth it because we get to experience life together. The ups and downs of our relationship aren’t easy, but they make us stronger as individuals and as a couple. We’ve been through some really tough times together but we always make it through because we have each other’s backs through thick and thin.
I love how much laughter there is between us and how much joy we bring each other every single day, It’s hard sometimes when things seem difficult, but being able to laugh at ourselves (and others) makes everything seem so much better.
Dear [husband’s name],
I love you. I love the way you make me feel, and the way you look at me with those sweet eyes of yours. I love your laugh and your smile, the way you look at me when we’re out in public, and the way you hold my hand when we’re alone together. You are an amazing man, and I am so lucky to have you as my husband.
You’ve made me feel so special since the day we first met; that hasn’t changed over time. It’s been three years now since we got married, but it feels like yesterday that we were just kids in high school getting ready for prom night! The past few years have brought us some real challenges but they’ve also brought us closer together than ever before. You are my best friend; there is nothing I wouldn’t do for you or with you.
Thank you for being such a wonderful husband for all these years and for making me feel like the luckiest woman alive every single day of our lives together.
Dear husband,
I love you so much. I don’t even know where to start, but I’ll try.
You’re such a good dad to our kids. They are so lucky to have you as their father! You are patient and kind, and they look up to you so much. You give them the best advice about everything from schoolwork to relationships, and they know they can always count on you for support.
You help out around the house all the time doing laundry, cooking dinner, taking out the trash and I appreciate everything you do for us. I know it’s not easy being a stay-at-home dad with 3 kids under 6 years old and yet somehow you still manage to find time for yourself and keep up with your hobbies (like playing guitar).
I love how hardworking and ambitious you are. You have always been my role model when it comes to finding success in life through hard work and dedication. Even when things get tough and we don’t see eye-to-eye on something, I know that no matter what happens in life there will be one thing that we can always agree on: that hard work pays off and boy has it paid off for us.
Dear [husband’s name],
Even though I’ve known you for a long time, I’m still amazed by the way you look at me. It’s like you can see everything that matters about me and it makes my heart feel like it’s going to burst. You make me want to be a better person just so that I can try to deserve you.
I know we’ve had some hard times, and there are probably more on the horizon. But I’m so glad that we’re here together now and I’m so grateful that we decided to take this crazy leap together.
Dear Husband,
I love you.
I love you so much that sometimes I don’t even know how to express it. I love you so much that I just want to sit on your lap for hours and never move. I love you so much that when we fight, it makes me want to cry, but I can’t because I’m too mad at you. I love you so much that when we make up, it makes me want to cry again, but this time with joy.
When you come home from work every day and ask how my day went and then listen as I tell you all about what happened at work while making dinner together, it makes me feel like the luckiest woman in the world. When we go out to dinner together and then come home and cuddle in front of the TV while watching a movie or reading a book together? That’s just perfection.
I love that we have similar sense of humor and taste in movies (you’re obsessed with The Shawshank Redemption), music (you’re obsessed with “Fast Car” by Tracy Chapman), and books (you’re obsessed with Harry Potter). And even though we have these similarities in our interests, we also have differences which means there’s always something new for us
Dear husband,
I love you. I know we don’t say it often enough, but I want to make sure that you always know how much I appreciate you. You’re a wonderful man and a great father and I’m so lucky to have found someone like you.
I love the way you laugh at my jokes and make me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world when all I’ve done is brush my hair or put on some lipstick. When we were dating, I loved how much fun it was just hanging out with you, but now that we’ve been married for so long, it’s so much more than that: it’s still fun, but there’s also this deep sense of satisfaction that comes from sharing our lives together and knowing that no one else could ever make me happier than you do.
You’re there for me when things go wrong, but even more importantly, you’re there for me when things go right and let’s face it: life is full of ups and downs. But if we stick together through all of it, then nothing can stop us from being happy together.
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Open Letter To My Husband
Dear Husband,
I know that it’s been a year since we last saw each other, and I know that you have moved on with your life. But I’m writing this open letter to you because I don’t think you understand how much I miss you.
I miss the way you used to be there for me when I needed a shoulder to cry on. I miss the way you would always make me laugh, even when things were going wrong. I miss the way you would always comfort me when someone said something mean to me.
I miss everything about you, but most of all, I miss how much we loved each other. We had so many good times together and even though they’re gone now, they will never be forgotten by either one of us.
Dear Husband,
I’m writing this letter because I feel like you and I don’t communicate well. We haven’t been getting along for a while now, and I think it’s time for us to take a different direction. It’s time for us to start figuring out what we want from each other and how we’re going to get there.
I know that you are an amazing person. You have so many good qualities, and I love all of them. But there is one thing that has been bothering me lately: your ability to talk things through with me when they are bothering you.
There have been so many times when I’ve wanted to talk about something that was bothering me only to be met with silence or an argument over something completely different than what was bothering me in the first place! That doesn’t help anything! And if it makes you feel better, then it doesn’t solve anything either!
Dear husband,
I know that you and I have been married for quite a few years, but I still want to tell you how much I love and appreciate you.
I know that we have had our ups and downs, but I want you to know that I am committed to making this marriage work.
You are a wonderful husband, father and person! You make me so happy! You don’t realize it, but every day I am thankful that God put you in my life. You are so good to me and our children. You always put everyone else first before yourself.
You are such an amazing father! Our children look up to you as their role model in life. You teach them right from wrong by example. They see how hard you work every day at work just so they can have what they need and want in life. They also see how much time and effort you put into helping with their homework assignments or projects at school that they may need help with finishing up before the due date arrives. These are just some of the ways that they see how much you love them by being involved in their lives on many different levels throughout each day!
Dear Husband,
I wanted to write this letter to you because I know that you are so worried about me. You see, I have been very sick for the past few months, and you have been doing everything that you can to take care of me. I know that it has been hard for you these past few months. You have had to take care of all of us while also working full time and taking classes at school. And we all know how stressful it is when you have a lot on your plate.
I want to let you know that I appreciate everything that you do for us and our family. You are such an amazing husband and father! You always put us first before anything else in your life, but I know that it must be difficult for someone who works so hard at being such a great provider for his family to be told he isn’t good enough simply because he’s too stressed out from work and school. With all of the pressures on your shoulders as a husband and father, I just wanted to remind you of all the great things about yourself that make up who you are as an amazing husband and father. I appreciate you and love you.
Dear Husband,
I’m writing to you today because I’ve been thinking about the way we communicate, and I wanted to tell you that I love you.
I know that’s not a surprise. I love you every day. But lately I’ve been thinking about how lucky we are to have each other, and how important it is for us to remember that. It’s easy to take each other for granted when we’re around each other all the time, but when we spend time apart, it makes me realize just how much I miss being around you.
I really appreciate all of your help with our kids, because it means so much to me that they have such an amazing father. You’re always there for them when they need something or want something, and they know they can count on you to be there no matter what happens in life. Thank you for being such a great father!
It means so much more than words can say when someone truly listens to us; thank you for always making time for me even if it means taking a break from your own projects or hobbies. You’re always willing to give up something so that we can spend time together as a family, and it really means a lot to me knowing how much effort you put into our relationship day after day.
Dear [husband],
I’m writing to you because I love you and want to tell you how much. You are my best friend, my soul mate, and my confidant. I can’t think of anyone else in the world who would put up with me like you do. You are patient, kind and generous. And despite being married for over 20 years, we still have fun together!
You are always there for me when I need someone to talk to or help me out with things around the house or garden. You are very selfless and put others before yourself all the time. This has helped us stay happy together all these years!
I just wanted to let you know how important you are to me by writing this letter today! Thank-you for being such a wonderful husband and companion!
Dear Husband,
I hope you are doing well. I know that this has been a difficult time for us as a family and I want to thank you for being patient with me as I have worked through my feelings. I feel like I have come to a place where I can express them openly and honestly with you, so please know that whatever happens from here on out, it is because of how much I love you.
You are my best friend and the person that I am most comfortable expressing myself around. You have always been there for me when it mattered the most, even in our darkest times together. You helped me get through some really tough times and made sure we both came out on top in the end. It’s hard being married sometimes because it feels like we spend so much time focusing on each other instead of our own lives but I think this is one of those times where we need to take care of ourselves first before we can take care of each other again and maybe even better than before!
I know this isn’t easy for either one of us and that it’s going to take some adjusting at first, but if anything good came out of all this then it has been teaching us how important communication is between two people.
To my husband,
I just wanted to tell you that I love you. I love the way you make me laugh, and how much joy you bring into my life. Your hugs are like nothing else in the world. You’re always there for me when I need you, and that means more than anything.
I love how much you care about me and our family, and how well you take care of us all. You’re such a good daddy! And I know that this is hard for you sometimes being a stay-at-home dad while I work so much but I want you to know how grateful I am for everything that you do for us every day.
You’ve been with me through some of the toughest times in my life, and even though we’ve had our ups and downs, we’ve always seemed to come out on top together as a couple. You’re an incredible person, who has made me feel loved every single day since we got married and even before then! Thank you for being my best friend and partner in crime, thank you for putting up with all of my crazy antics over the years, thank you for being such an amazing dad, thank you for your support when things get tough, thank you for loving me unconditionally.
Dear husband,
This is an open letter to you. I know that we have been married for a while now and this may be the first time I am writing to you in this manner. I just want to say that it has been a wonderful journey so far, but there are some things that have bothered me for quite some time now.
I know you don’t like it when I talk about our finances or your spending habits, but I need to get this off my chest. You always tell me not to worry about it because everything will be fine and we will be able to pay our bills every month without any trouble at all. But honestly speaking, I don’t see how we are going to do that if you keep spending money like there is no tomorrow! You just don’t seem to care about anything else but yourself and your needs only!
Dear Husband,
I know I haven’t been the best wife. In fact, I’m pretty sure I’ve been a terrible one.
I’m sorry for being selfish and thoughtless. I’m sorry for not listening when you wanted to talk. I’m sorry for judging you when you didn’t deserve it and for letting my insecurities get the best of me.
I’m sorry for not being there when you needed me most and for not trusting that you would always be there for me too.
I’m sorry for taking our marriage for granted and believing that it would always be easy.
I promise to do better from now on because it’s hard to find someone who will love you unconditionally like I do, someone who wants to spend every day with you without fail, someone who will love you even when you’re at your worst or if things aren’t going well between us at the moment (or ever). Someone who will never give up on us or give up on himself because we’re worth fighting for together!
My husband,
I am writing this letter to you because I feel like we have been growing apart. We have been married for 8 years and it seems like we are more like roommates than husband and wife. I still love you very much but there are things that need to be said.
First off, I want to thank you for being a good father to our kids. They love you very much and they always have fun when they are with you. However, lately I have noticed that they come home from spending time with you complaining about how much time they spend on the computer playing video games or watching sports on TV instead of spending quality time with them. It’s not fair to them because they were born in this world with the same potential as any other child, but if we don’t give them the tools to succeed then how can we expect anything different from them?
Secondly, I want to talk about our sex life. It’s been months since we’ve had sex, and when we do it feels forced and mechanical rather than passionate and loving like it used to be when we first got together.