I’m Sorry For Being A Bad Girlfriend Letter

I’m Sorry For Being A Bad Girlfriend Letter: Being a bad girlfriend is not your fault! I’m completely serious. You’re just trying to do your best and often time’s that isn’t good enough. It might seem like you’re always doing something wrong but it all comes down to communication, which is the first step in making all of this better. This letter is going to act as a roadmap to fixing your relationship and taking things back to how they should be.

I’m Sorry For Being A Bad Girlfriend Letter

Dear [person’s name],

I’m sorry for being such a bad girlfriend. I know I’ve been a little distant lately, and I just want you to know that it’s not because I don’t love you. It’s just that lately, things have been really hard for me. I’ve been worried about my family, and trying to figure out what the best thing is for us as a couple.

I know we haven’t had much time together lately, but when we do get together, it’s always so amazing! It feels like we’re finally starting to click as a couple. And that feels like a huge step forward in our relationship. But then it’s over so quickly! We don’t get nearly enough time together.

I just wanted to say thank you for being so understanding, even though we haven’t gotten much time together recently, you have been so kind and supportive throughout this whole process. I’m sure it hasn’t been easy on you either, after all, it has only been two months since we started dating! But still, you’ve kept your cool through all of this craziness (and all of my crazy).

I love you so much and want nothing more than for us to be together.

Dear [girlfriend name],

I’m sorry for being a bad girlfriend. I know that it’s been hard on you, and I want to make it up to you.

I’ve always been there for you when you needed me, but lately I haven’t been the best version of myself. I know that we started out with a lot of fun times together, but lately it’s just seemed like we’re getting into more arguments than not.

I’m tired of this cycle, and I want it to stop. So starting today, I’m going to try harder to be better for you, because you deserve all the best that this world has to offer, and if that means making some changes in your life or mine, then so be it!

Dear Boyfriend,

 I’m sorry for being a bad girlfriend.

I know how much you love me, and I know that you’ve been nothing but good to me since the day we met. You’re always there for me when I need it, and you’re always willing to listen. You make me feel safe and secure, like nothing can ever take us apart.

But lately I’ve been doing things that make you feel less than safe and secure around me. I know that it’s my job as your partner to make sure that you don’t have any doubts about our relationship. And lately, I’ve been letting you down in this department.

I’m sorry for not being the best girlfriend ever like you deserve me to be! It’s not because I don’t care about us, it’s because sometimes it feels like everything else matters more than us.

Dear [name],

I’m sorry for being a bad girlfriend. I know you don’t deserve this, but I’ve been having a hard time lately and I can’t seem to shake it. You’re always there for me, and I just want you to know how grateful I am that you are in my life.

I love you so much, [name]. Your support means so much to me.

Dear [name],

I know I’ve been a bad girlfriend recently, and I want to apologize to you. I haven’t been giving you the attention you deserve and I’ve been acting selfishly. This isn’t the kind of person I want to be, but I’m trying to figure out what makes me happy and right now it’s not being with you. But that doesn’t mean that we can’t still be friends!

I hope this doesn’t hurt our relationship too badly, we’ve had some great times together, and I don’t want them to end. We can still hang out, but maybe just not as much as we used to? That might make things easier for both of us right now.

Love always,

(Name).

Dear [partner],

I’m sorry for being a bad girlfriend. I know you’ve been trying to help me, but I’m just really struggling with [problem]. It’s not your fault it’s mine. But it doesn’t mean that I don’t love you or want to be with you.

I know this isn’t exactly what you signed up for when we got together, but that doesn’t mean you should leave me! Please don’t go! You’re amazing and I can’t imagine life without you. You’re my best friend and the person who makes me laugh when nothing else matters.

I promise that things will get better soon,. Please give me a little space while I figure things out; then we can reconnect and be happy again!

Dear (boyfriend’s name),

I just wanted to tell you that I’m sorry for being a bad girlfriend. I know I’ve been on my phone a lot lately, and I’ve been really distracted when we’re together. It’s just that lately, I’ve found myself getting really bored with our relationship. You’re great and all, but sometimes it’s hard for me to see why we’re together in the first place. And then I start thinking about how much time we spend apart, and then I feel like maybe we’re not meant to be.

But that’s not true! You’re amazing, I just wish things could be different for us. So anyway… thanks for being so understanding about everything!

Dear [name],

I’m sorry for being such a bad girlfriend lately. I know I’ve been distant and kind of mean, and I don’t want you to think that it’s because of you. It’s not. It’s me.

I have a lot going on with my family right now, and it’s just hard for me to focus on anything else. I don’t mean to be so flaky about plans or things we should do together, it’s just that when something comes up with my family, it takes over my brain and won’t let go. And then before I know it, I’m canceling plans without even realizing it!

I feel terrible about this, but please know that the only reason why I’m doing this is because of how much they mean to me and how much they need me right now. If there was any other way for me to help them out… well… you know how much they mean to me! You know how important they are in my life! So even though all these cancellations are totally unintentional on my part, please forgive me? I’m trying hard here babe!

Dear [name],

I’m so sorry for the way I’ve been acting lately. It’s not you, it’s me. I know you’re going through a lot, and I want to be there for you like you were there for me when I had to deal with all the stuff with my mom. But I just feel like I’m not as good at this kind of stuff as you are.

I don’t know if it’s because you’re so much older than me or what, but when we were together, you always seemed to know how to comfort me when things got tough. Now that we aren’t together anymore, it feels like all those skills have slipped away from me, and I don’t know how to get them back!

I miss the way we used to talk about things, the way you helped me see things in a new way, and now all that is gone. And while sometimes it seems like it might be easier if we weren’t friends anymore (or at least not as close), part of me really misses that closeness and wants us to get back to where we were before everything went wrong between us.

Dear [name],

I am writing this letter to you to apologize for being a bad girlfriend. I know we’ve been together for a long time, but I feel like lately we haven’t been as close as we used to be. You are my best friend and the person who knows me better than anyone else in the world. I love you so much, but sometimes I forget how important it is for us to spend time together. I’m sorry that sometimes I forget that our relationship is more important than anything else in my life.

I also want you to know that when I do spend time with you, it means more than any event or activity could ever mean. You’re always there for me when I need someone to talk to, and there are no words that can express how grateful I am for that. Even though there are times when you might think things have changed between us, they haven’t! It’s just been hard lately because of all the stress at work and school getting in the way of our relationship, but now that finals are over and things have calmed down a little bit, hopefully we can find more time together again soon!

Dear <name>,

I’m so sorry for being a bad girlfriend. I know that you deserve better and that I have been a terrible person. I’ve been selfish, self-centered, and not very caring at all. I don’t deserve to be with someone like you who is so kind and loving. My behavior makes me feel like a monster sometimes, but that doesn’t change the fact that it’s true. Please forgive me for being such an awful person because this is not who I want to be.

Sincerely,

<name>

Dear [name],

I’m sorry for being a bad girlfriend. I know that you’re disappointed in me and it kills me to see you like this. You’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me, and I want to make things right. Please give me another chance!

Dear [Name],

I’m sorry for being a bad girlfriend. I made you feel like I wasn’t there for you when you needed me most, and that was wrong of me. I know that we’ve had some ups and downs in the past, but I want to make sure you know how much I appreciate you and all that you do for me. You are such an amazing person, [Name], and I hope someday we can be as strong as our relationship deserves us to be.

I love you so much, [Name], and it’s because of this love that I’m going to try harder next time, to show up, listen more carefully, and be there when you need me most.

Dear [your name],

I’m writing to you because I want to apologize for the way I’ve been acting lately. It’s not that I don’t understand what you’re going through, I do. It’s just that sometimes, it’s hard for me to be there for you when I need to be. I know that you’ve been going through a lot recently, and I feel like maybe our relationship is suffering as a result.

I’m sorry. Please forgive me if I’ve been acting distant or cold lately, but please know that it is not because of anything wrong with you or our relationship, it’s just because sometimes life gets in the way of what we want most. But no matter what happens in the future (and whether or not we stay together), please know that no matter what happens between us, nothing will ever change how much I love you!

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Dear [significant other],

I just wanted to say I’m sorry for being a bad girlfriend. I know the past few weeks have been hard for both of us, and that’s not your fault, it’s mine. But I want you to know that I’m trying my best to be the best girlfriend possible, and that includes being a better listener.

As your girlfriend, I want to make sure that we can talk about anything and everything as openly as possible. That means if you think something is bothering me or if there’s something I need to talk about with you, then let me know! Don’t be afraid to ask me what’s on your mind; we’re in this together!

Love always,

Your Girlfriend.