Letter To Husband Who Stopped Loving Me

When your husband stops loving you, it’s a hard thing to deal with. You feel alone, helpless and like you did something wrong. The last thing you want to do is sit down and write out everything that is going on in your head. Here are a few samples that can help you convey your feelings.

Letter To Husband Who Stopped Loving Me

Dear husband,

I know you don’t love me anymore. I see it in your eyes when you look at me. I see it in your actions when we are together. I feel it when I’m near you and even more so when you’re gone.

You tell me that it’s not me, but I know that this is something that has been going on for a very long time. You’ve been distant for years now, and though I know that it’s not my fault, there is still a part of me that feels like a failure as a wife because of this distance between us.

I’m tired of feeling like this though, tired of feeling like an outsider in our marriage, tired of being told by everyone else how great things should be between us and how much they miss the closeness we had before kids came into our lives.

I wish it were different too, but what can I do? What do you expect me to do? You’ve never given me any indication that things could change between us again and yet here we are living apart from each other for the first time in our marriage because nothing else seems to work anymore between us or around us with our children in tow.

I don’t want this life anymore.

Dear husband,

I’m writing this letter to you because I love you and I want our marriage to work. I know that you are going through a lot right now, but please don’t let it get in the way of our happiness. You have been my best friend and soulmate for so long, and I don’t want to lose you. Please give me another chance and let’s start over fresh.

I know things have been rough between us lately, but we can make things better if we just talk about it. You’ve been distant lately, and it hurts me deeply when you don’t show me any affection or love anymore. I know that sometimes you get tired after work and need some time alone, but we used to spend quality time together every evening before bedtime so we could talk about our day and what was on our minds. Now all we do is sleep next to each other without even saying goodnight or good morning before going about our days apart from one another for hours at a time.

I miss being able to cuddle up next to you at night on the couch while watching TV or reading books together before bedtime like when we first started dating many years ago.

Dear Husband,

I know I am not perfect and I have my flaws but I have never done anything to intentionally hurt you or our family. I do understand that life is not always easy and it is hard for you to put your feelings into words, but please try to understand that it is difficult for me as well when you don’t even try.

I want to be a good wife and mother, but if you are not happy with me then maybe we should separate so we can both find happiness in different areas of our lives. If this is what needs to happen then so be it, but at least give me the respect of telling me what’s going on instead of keeping me guessing.

I don’t know how long we have been married now, but I still remember how excited we were when we first got married and how much fun it was just spending time with each other without any outside distractions from friends or family or work. At that time nothing else mattered except us being together and doing things as a couple. Nowadays it seems like all we do is fight about issues that never get resolved because one person refuses to communicate with the other person about how they feel about certain things happening in their lives.

Dear Husband,

I am writing this letter to you because I don’t know what else to do. You used to be the man who would never give up on me, but now you have given up on us.

I understand that life is hard and that things happen that can change our lives in a heartbeat. But it has been almost three years since we lost our daughter, and I still don’t feel like you are here with me.

You have been so distant since she died, and I’m starting to wonder if you even love me anymore. You barely touch me anymore, and when you do it is cold and uncomfortable. We used to hold hands everywhere we went, now when we are together we don’t even look at each other anymore.

All of this happened after we lost our baby girl; it seems like everything went downhill after she passed away from SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome). But why does it feel like you blame me for all of this happening? All I did was stay strong for both of us! We were supposed to be there for each other during this time but instead you pushed me away and left me alone with all these emotions swirling around inside of my head every day!

Dear Husband,

I know that we have been struggling for a long time. I’ve hurt you and you’ve hurt me. I’m sorry that I’ve been so cold and distant. I’m sorry that I haven’t been open with you. And I’m sorry that I haven’t been there for you when you needed me most.

But can you ever forgive me? Can we ever start over again? Can we find our way back to the love we had for each other when we first met?

I don’t know if this letter will do any good but it’s worth a shot. If nothing else, maybe it will help me feel better about everything that has happened between us.

I know that you don’t love me anymore, even if you didn’t say so in your letter. And maybe one day soon, when things calm down a bit and we both have more time to think about what’s important in life, maybe then we can talk again like two normal people who care about each other instead of two people who just want to win an argument at all costs.

Dear [Husband],

I know you have been going through a lot lately, and I am so sorry that it has affected our marriage. I understand that you need time to figure out who you are and what you want in life. But I just can’t sit here and wait for you to make those decisions.

You see, I am not the same woman who married you three years ago. I am different now, and so is our marriage. We haven’t been happy for a long time — maybe even from the beginning — but we were together because we were supposed to be together. We had a baby together, after all!

But now I feel like maybe we made a mistake by getting married so quickly or by having a child together when maybe neither of us was ready for it (or at least one of us wasn’t).

I know this isn’t easy for either of us, but maybe we should move forward with divorce proceedings now instead of waiting around until something happens that changes everything again (like having another child).

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Dear Husband,

First, I want to thank you for the years we spent together. They were not all bad, and there were many good times. I know that you are a good man and that you have many good qualities.

I know that some of our problems were my fault. I’m sorry for my mistakes and wish I could take them back. But there is nothing left for me to do but accept my fate and move on with my life.

I know that you stopped loving me, and deep down inside, you don’t want to be with me anymore. You want someone else in your life who can give you what I can’t — passion, excitement and adventure. That person is not me; it’s her!

Dear Husband,

I don’t think I can go on this way. I know that you have stopped loving me, and I don’t know what to do about it. I’m heartbroken. You are my best friend and the person who knows me better than anyone else in the world. We’ve been together for so long, and now we’re just strangers living under the same roof.

I remember when we met, how excited I was. You were so handsome and cool, but also sweet and kind. When we started dating, I thought that we would be together forever. Now here we are, in our 30s, living a life that is not what either of us imagined growing up as teenagers. We’ve had some good times together, but lately it feels like everything is just falling apart around us.

It’s not just our marriage that is falling apart; it’s also our family life together with our kids and friends too!

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Dear Husband,

I know you don’t love me anymore. I know I have done things to push you away and make you feel unloved. But I can’t help but wonder if there is anything I can say or do to get you to love me again. You haven’t touched me in months, not since the night of our anniversary when we had sex. You haven’t even hugged me in weeks.

I understand that you are hurting right now, that something happened at work that has been weighing on your mind. But please try to remember that we used to be so happy together. We used to love each other so much and it was such a joy for both of us to come home from work every day knowing that I would be waiting for you with dinner ready and eager for your kiss. Now when we get home from work all we do is fight about money or argue over bills or school projects or whatever else has become an issue between us lately.

It hurts me so much when you push me away like this; when you refuse to spend time with me because it’s easier just sitting around watching TV alone than it is sitting next to me on the couch while we watch our favorite shows together. Please don’t keep pushing me away like this.

Dear Husband,

I feel that I have failed you in a lot of ways, but the main reason for your unhappiness is that I am not able to give you what you want. I know that you wanted a family and a beautiful house, but neither of these things could be possible because of my health issues.

I know that you are going through a lot of stress because of our financial situation. And it is not just about money; it is also about our future together as a couple. You have always wanted to see your children grow up, but now that they are getting older, I feel that we are losing each other slowly day by day. You are becoming more distant from me every single day and it breaks my heart whenever I see you spending time with them instead of me.

I know that sometimes I can be too needy and clingy when it comes to relationships, but this time around it feels like you don’t even care anymore whether we stay together or break up. It feels like everything has come to an end between us and I am feeling so lonely right now.

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