Letter To Boyfriend Expressing Hurt Feelings

Are you hurt and want to express it? Are you not even sure how to write about your hurt feelings? The purpose of this article is to help you find the right Words To Express Hurt Feelings to your boyfriend in a way that doesn’t hold back.

Letter To Boyfriend Expressing Hurt Feelings

Dear [Boyfriend],

I’m writing you this letter because I’m hurt. You did something that upset me and I just need to get it off my chest.

It started when you said that [something]. I know you meant well, but it really bothered me that you were so dismissive of my feelings on the matter. And then later, when we were talking about it again, you just kept saying how much it didn’t bother you, which made me feel even worse!

Dear [boyfriend name],

I’m writing this letter to you because I have something important to say, and I would like to do so in person. But since that’s not possible right now, I’m hoping that you’ll read this letter and think about what I’m saying.

The reason that I am writing is because of the way you treated me last night. I know that things have been difficult for us lately, but I wasn’t expecting the way you acted toward me last night. You told me that if I can’t handle things then maybe we should break up. That’s not how a relationship should work! You said it yourself, we’re supposed to be partners! Partners don’t treat each other like that!

I’m sorry if this sounds harsh, but I want you to know how much your words hurt me when they’re directed at me. Your words weren’t just hurtful, they were cruel and unjustified. They made me feel like nothing more than an object instead of someone who has feelings and thoughts like everyone else does. It’s hard enough being a teenager without having someone act like they hate themselves because they can’t cope with their own problems without taking them out on other people first.

Dear [boyfriend’s name],

I’m writing you this letter because I need to tell you something. It’s been on my mind for a while, and it’s really bothering me.

I’ve been feeling hurt lately because you haven’t made any effort to be more open with me about your feelings. We’ve been dating for about two years now, and I feel like we should be able to talk about anything by now. But every time I try to bring up something that might make you uncomfortable like how often you spend time with your friends or how much time you spend on your phone, you just get defensive and shut down.

I know that you’re sensitive about these things because they’re personal, but after a while it starts to feel like a rejection of me as a person. And then when we do talk about them, it always ends up being an argument where you feel attacked and I feel unheard.

I want us to have an open relationship where we can both be ourselves without worrying about hurting each other’s feelings, that’s what real love is all about, right? But if we can’t even figure out how to talk openly with each other when there are small issues like this one, then how can we ever hope to resolve the bigger issues.

Dear [Boyfriend Name],

I wanted to write you a letter because I’m feeling hurt. I can’t really talk about it in person because whenever we’re together, you just talk about your work and don’t seem to care what’s going on with me. But when we’re apart, I feel like all you do is think about me and worry about me. You’ve told me that before, and it makes me feel even worse!

It’s not that I want you to stop caring about me, it’s just that sometimes it feels like you only care about the parts of me that make things easier for you or are more fun for you. And when I try to share how I feel or what’s going on with me, no matter how much effort I put into making sure it’s clear and easy to understand, sometimes you don’t seem to hear what I’m saying at all!

I know we’re both busy people who work a lot and have a lot of other things going on in our lives right now. But if there was something we could do together that would help us stay connected without taking up too much time or energy? That would be great!

Dear [Boyfriend name],

I’m writing this letter to you because I’ve been feeling a little hurt over the past few days. You’ve been spending a lot of time with [Other girl’s name] lately, and I feel like it’s at my expense. We always used to spend so much time together, but lately we seem to have drifted apart, and I think it has something to do with you hanging out with her all the time.

I know we’re not in a relationship or anything, but we’ve been dating for a while now, and I thought that meant something. When we first started dating, you told me that you really liked me and felt like we had something special going on. I appreciate the fact that we can still be friends after all this time, but I’m beginning to wonder if there’s more going on between you two than just friendship.

Dear [boyfriend name],

I just wanted to write you a quick note because I’m feeling hurt. I know that we haven’t been together too long, but I thought we were getting close.

I feel like you’ve been avoiding me lately, and I don’t know why. You used to text me all the time, but now it seems like you’re just not interested anymore.

If this isn’t how you want things to be between us, then just say so. I mean, it’s fine if we’re not going to be together anymore. I just want to know so that I can start focusing on my future instead of trying to figure out what’s going on here.

Dear [name],

I’m writing to you to express my hurt feelings. I feel that you have been hurting me for a long time now and I want to tell you how it has affected me. This pain is not easy for me to bear, but unfortunately I have no choice but to accept it as part of my life.

I know that you are an important person in my life because we have shared so much together. However, if you continue to hurt me like this, then our relationship will become meaningless and I will have no choice but to leave you. You must understand that I love you with all my heart and soul and I cannot allow myself to be treated in such a cruel manner any longer.

I hope this letter finds you well, and I pray that God gives both of us the strength to overcome our trials together as one united family.
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Dear [boyfriend],

I feel hurt by what you did, and I am not going to lie. I know that you did it out of love for me, but I am still hurt.

I am not mad at you. I know that it was an accident, and I know that it wasn’t done on purpose. But when you say things like this to me, it makes me feel like my feelings don’t matter or that they are not important enough for you to respect them.

I know that is not what you mean to convey by doing this, but if my feelings were hurt by your actions then they must be respected. You don’t have to agree with them or understand them, but they are there nonetheless, and they will never go away just because someone doesn’t want them there.

Dear [Boyfriend’s Name],

I’m writing this letter because I’ve been feeling really hurt lately. I don’t think you realize how much I care about you, and sometimes it hurts to know that you don’t care as much as I do.

I feel like we’re drifting apart. We used to talk all the time, but now our conversations are few and far between. You always have something else going on, and when we finally talk it feels forced and unnatural.

Dear Boyfriend,

I know that we have been together for a long time and I feel as if we have gotten to know each other pretty well. This is why I am writing you this letter. You see, I am hurt by the way things have been going lately between us. I have been trying to understand what is going on with you, but I simply cannot understand why you would act this way after all we have been through together.

I remember when we first met and how happy I was back then. It was like nothing could go wrong with us as long as we were together. However, as time passed by, things started to change and it became harder for me to trust you again because of how distant you came across as of late.

I thought that maybe it was just me who was feeling this way so I tried asking some of our friends about it but they said the same thing, they thought something was wrong too but they didn’t know what exactly it was or what they could do about it either!

They said that since neither of us are willing to talk about our feelings right now then there wasn’t much anyone could do except wait until one day when you decide that enough is enough and come back home.

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Dear [boyfriend],

I am writing this letter with a heavy heart because I want you to know how much I love you and how sorry I am for hurting you. When we first met, I thought that we would end up together forever; but now, after all this time, things seem different between us. We don’t communicate well anymore and our relationship seems like a burden on both of us. In fact, I have been thinking about breaking up with you because I don’t think that we are going anywhere anymore.

I know that it’s not easy for me to say these words to you because I’m so attached to my feelings for you; but at the same time, I don’t want to keep playing games with our relationship. It’s either we break up or else try harder to fix things between us.

Dear [boyfriend],

In this letter I want to share my hurt feelings with you. I must admit that I am really hurt by your behavior and I don’t know why you have been treating me like this. You have been ignoring me and my calls for the past few days and I am really upset about it. I thought we were in a relationship but it seems like you do not care about me at all. If we are not together then why did you say that we will always be together? Why did you say that we will be together forever? If these things were lies then why did you lie to me? How long are you going to keep lying to me?

I cannot believe that after all these years, our relationship has come down to this level where we cannot even talk or communicate properly with each other. I wish things could go back to normal so that we can once again talk about the good old days when things were still good between us two.

Dear [boyfriend],

I know you are busy with your work, but it is not fair to me. You have not called me for days now. This has been going on for weeks now, and I am tired of it. There is something going wrong between us, and I don’t know what it is all about. You are acting like a stranger, and I don’t like it at all. You are my boyfriend after all, why do you want to hurt me?

I know that we have not been close lately but that does not mean that we should cut off our relationship completely. We have been together for so long now; I don’t want to lose you so easily. I want things to go back to how they were before because it was better then than now. Can we please talk about this? Please call me when you get a chance, okay?

I love you!

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